Contest | "Good touch or bad touch"

In today's age, teaching your children about good and bad touch is not an option anymore. It's a necessity which all parents should fulfill without any shame just as they brought their children in this world.

Children and adults have the right over their body and shouldn't be treated with any bad intention. Just as any animal who retaliates by barking when touched or treated ill. We should train our kids to practice as a security guard for their own bodies

They should be encouraged to say NO to a touch which is making them uncomfortable

They should immediately inform you if anything bad happens. It can only happen if you provide an open environment for communication.

Children had always touched badly by the adults in the past centuries as well. However, in this modern age which is called the social media age, humans are always exposed to inappropriate content, which has increased the lust of mentally ill people.

These psychopaths then project their lust onto the children and snatch their innocence

Children on the other hand as they grow become curious about their own body parts. These days parents give phones to barely a year old child, so you know very well what they can watch.
This lead them to do naughty things with other children without knowing it's bad.

It's the responsibility of the parents to raise them well and build their strong character.

• Teaching children about bad touch can be done practically or verbally.
• Take their toys and teach them names of the private body parts which we cover while swimming (all the time).
• Tell them only your parents can touch them while giving bath or changing diapers or doctor while examining in the presence of the parents.

Lastly, children and adults always know when they are touched wrongly. They are just confuse to stop it or tell anyone. Deep inside they know it's wrong and don't want to fall in the trap of such perpetrators.

Your duty as a parent is just to raise confident childrens who RETALIATE in danger.

It's necessary for both girls and boys to prepare for any future danger. Girls are more prone to bad touches but boys are no less immune to this behaviour.

We give much importance to girl's safety which is digestible if we don't ignore boys.

Remember children are sexually abused by males. When we teach both girls as well as boys about bad touch, they(boys) will not only protect themselves from perpetrators, but will not become a danger for others in future.

Girls get abused excessively because men have the temptations for women.

But such monsters also abuse boys

If you're from a developing country you must have seen truck drivers keep small boys with them for help. In most of the cases, the truck driver abuse those boys sexually, that's why they don't keep grown up help with them.

Boys are abused in the schools by their teachers as well as in Madrasas where they get to know about their religion. It is very unfortunate that a handful of teachers bring a shame for the religion and educational institute.

Evil world is ready to eat out our children without keeping any sense between their genders. So, why we teach only our girls and don't feel the need for boys, when 99% of abuse in the world is done by the men?

Absolutely yes, girls and women have the sense to detect bed intentions of the men. In case of animals, when they want to mate, male animals release pheromones in the air, a kind of signal for mate to female animal, which she perceives naturally.

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We humans, especially women, have the God gifted senses to protect overselves from danger. Women know when she is stared or touched in a wrong way.

1 in 3women are touched badly, assaulted, raped, or beaten up as children, teens, or adults. It's so common that it's doesn't feel peculiar thing for women to hear, though it's equally sad and enraging at all the incidents.

***A women only gets in danger when she ignores the red flags coming from men's intention****.

• Last year, in one of the universities of our country, a scandal appeared of a professor having nude videos of his female students. It was in thousands, i feel sorry for the parents who raise such children, who prefer their grades over their modesty.

I don't know if it is true for men as well or not, to sense danger. But women can surely protect herself from predators if she bring a little confidence on the table, and Say NO.

Bad touch is bad even if a family is involved or any outsider. Only those fall for this discussion who are too naive or want to close their eyes from a danger.

But the sad news is, Danger wouldn't go anywhere, it's still there

The U. S department of justice shares the statistics claming 80-85 accusers of the abuse are the known people of the victim. Source

It is seen that girls get abused more from their own family members and acquaintances. While boys outside of their home and not by their family members.

I have seen parents leave their kids to their family member while they are away. I don't know if parents are naive to think all family members(especially in joint families) are caring for your children.

OR it is just the era we are living in that has turned humans into monsters.

• You must haven't listen the incidents of men raping a corpse after digging her grave. I have heard it.

-I have heard the incident of two men raping a mother in front of their kids after taking her in jungle.

• I have heard an incident of the rape and death of a 7year old girl by her neighbour in Pakistan. This case awaken our people and the rapist was hanged.

• I have heard the rape and murder of a madrasa boy by his spiritual teacher.

So the things is no one is a commander safeguard for your children. You must prepare your children to live among all the monsters.

It's do or die here.

^{In the end, i wanna say one thing to dear Parents, please take care of your children. Never leave them alone without teaching them safety. Otherwise, if anything happens to them, they'll blame and hate you always for not being there to save them.}

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