You said that Women are often underestimated in what they do every day. Most people think that what they do at home, their duties, and how they take care of the family is no big deal. That's not true. To ensure the home heart's warmth, you must try very hard. Not many people understand that. I went to the SPA with a friend for a week. My husband stayed with the baby. He had to walk her to school. Make her food. Take care of her almost all day. When I came back from the SPA, it was only then that my husband appreciated what I was doing. No one can say exactly how a person performs his or her duties until he or she is in that person's shoes. You were right and it’s ok that your husband began to appreciate your efforts. Best regards and success in the engagement.