Choices! What will it be? #51

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My thumbnail image said life is a party. Hehehe. Is life really a party?

Life is a mystery. Life has it ups and downs. Sometime you win and some times you loose. Sometimes you’re happy and sometimes you’re sad. Something’s happen to make you want to go all out and achieve all you hope you can while sometimes the reverse happens and you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel.

I’ve had my own fair share of life’s ups and downs. I’ve had my own fair share of sadness and happiness, wins and loses but in all this I haven’t thrown in the towel.
Someone said when life gives you a lemon, make a lemonade out of it, and I ask, what if I don’t like lemonade. Hahaha.

All through the short time I’ve lived, I’ve known some good people who make your life worth living. Who are there to help you achieve all you can in life. One of such people who am grateful to have in my life is my elder brother. He has been such a blessing to me.

My mum the sweetest of all. She would never want to be a bother to you. She has given her all and still giving. When I look at her, I would want to do all I can to make her life less stressful. I have friends who have been a blessing to me in my life too.

They make life worth living. That moment when you have a good shoulder to cry on, a patient ear to listen to you and a good heart that understands and gives you wise counsel. It’s worth all the blessings in life. Families so say the least are a great blessings and there are friends that stick closer than brothers.

	Me crying in one of my sad moments

As I celebrate my blessings of life, also know that Life has dealt me a terrible blow through people who I had to much hope in and believed so much in them but they turned out to be the worst things that happened to my destiny. I had a friend who we’ve been friends for 14 years but the kind of betrayal and heart break I got from him was deathly.

Have you loved someone so much that you would give your life for them. That was how much I loved this friend but he took everything I knew love to be and smashed it right in my face. Betrayed my love, my trust and broke my heart into a thousand pieces. This was my hardest life experience so far.

It was so bad that I became suicidal. I wanted orange juice, life gave me a lemon. I couldn’t make the lemonade, I was too broken to see the future. I felt like I was in a dark tunnel and have no hope of seeing the light. But thank God to my girlfriend that took the lemon in my down times and made a lemonade for me.

	A happy me

I don’t like lemonade’s but at that point I have to hang on to the little pieces that remained of what’s remaining of my life. My girlfriend made the lemonade sweet with her kind words and prayers. She was such a blessing. I cried and cried and she was never tired of seeing me cry. She was patiently waiting for me to recover and I did.

I didn’t know how I was going to survive that blow but here I am today, better, bigger, stronger, softer and more compassionate. I though the experience would make be be bitter and a witch , hahahah. Thank God I didn’t break the wrong way. I was broken but that life’s blow brought out a better version of me.

Am Alice and am glad, am still pushing. I have purpose and am living out the life God wants for me. I don’t have all Ai need but am grate for my life. Am grateful for the gift of life and I know that to now I’ll be better.

Life is worth living when you discover your purpose and make the most of it. When you do not allow the downs of life drown the ups, if we keep pushing and do not quit, we will all win.

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