ProWritersHub (W-6) : Should the first born child of a family be male or female? _@sureway044
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Hello Wonderful Steemian's ,
First born child is quite important irrespective of gender
Though absolute reality is most people and family appreciate more, to have a male gender as first born child. While maintaining a loose hope in female gender child.
Facts is that , no of that truly matters. Whether male or female.
Since the Creator's God always knows best . As the Lord and the God factor for progression of human .
Though even God Himself first held such priority , by getting to get a male gender created first .
And did fashioned a male gender in likeness of His true image , according to the scripture. It was from then , God get to gave a man helper . On such concept that isn't good for a male gender to stayed alone.
So God Himself created a female gender from the male gender 's ribs . And did brought her to male gender . And the male gender name her Eve . Because she's the bone from his bone.
The concepts doesn't meant that God created a female gender a giffen. No , truth is that female gender was as well wonderfully made along lots of qualities and attributes. Making it quite unique to appreciate what gender birthed first.
What are the advantages and as well disadvantages if the first born is male or female gender
The main scene is that male or female gender, don't actually count with no impact . The level of impactasion is what that really count , such an impact most get from the parent.
Best on the level and corresponding nature of such impactasion , then we can examine the whole merits and dismerits as follows :
Merits of a male gender : As a male gender birthed into a well responsible family . Based on the level of nurturing and upbringing discipline would get to be or become as seen :
Hardworking and supporting at home in house chores
Defending and protecting the family while the father get old or get join the ancestor's. Died.
Directly extended the progression of the mother family.
The family would be easily recognized and get integrate by whole or compound family , whenever necessary without twisting things. Because of the presence and existing of male child.
Dismerits of a male gender : Total truth is that a male gender hast so many dismerits or disadvantages . Those disadvantages duly influences by the environment of resident , school and parental discipline. This disadvantages or dismerits are as follows :
Excessive stubbornness , not obeying either of the father or mother.
By influences getting to become drugs addict.
Getting involved in multiple immorality standard , without caring .
Becoming part of cultism , getting used to violence , riot and all of such.
Merits and dismerits of female gender
Female gender has the following merits:
Becoming very active in family house chores : the female help in house work and routine more than a male gender
Becoming grown-up and married out : when a female mature and get married out , based on the level of marriage rites the family glory.
Female child usually very caring for the parent , while the parent's get old.
Dismerits :
Human trafficking : when a female child get lure into human trafficking is very bad name for the family.
When the family can't cater properly for the female gender , early stage marriage . Wouldn't make the child to be able to discharge her responsibilities while managing to cater for her own children.
Peer Pressure can make a female child to become sex slave to bad gang.
My family first born
Though am from polygamy family and I have step brother who is first born to my father .
Here not undermined anything furthered truth is am also a first male child to my mother , but second to my father.
Right here I would portraying myself alone as the first male child. But not as the absolute first child.
My mother first child was a female gender , am second child and a first male gender. And now first child for my mother.
My names are Sebastine/Bassey -John/Udofia - Sureway/Ugo . And my normal name goes : Sureway John Sebastine. Currently in hometown here in Uyo Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria. Occupation , however am an industrial security operative and a web guru from IIPS and NIIT.
What so special about me : Briefly am quite friendly not often in the mode of talking and gesticulating , really polite , very firm.And a contrite heart , awe in nature . And I acknowledge I AM as God.
How I help my family : I usually encourage my Juniors and at times I pray for them. And I help my brother who gained admission to study in polytechnic to stopped. While void that he's now in Bayelsa state university. Based on my personal experienced and encountered along HND and BSC holder's.
How parent's should get prepared the first born child
The following are ways in which parent's should gets their first child prepared :
Education : The parent's who hast money should endeavour to trained their first born child . Not mind what gender the child is.
Vocational training : When the parent's note within them , that they wouldn't be able to enable their child further his or her education . Should make the child chose what skill best for him or her and forge up .
General Discipline : The parent's should be able to impact meaning mental , financial , emotional , psychological , social , cultural , traditional , normical and as well as religious discipline to their first born child as well as others following.
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Parents have a whole lot to do in other to get the children prepare for the future not just the first born but every child in the house, this is a responsibility that God gave them , yes like you said when the give the children general teaching in areas like mental , financial , emotional , psychological , social , cultural , traditionally they will have well oriented children.
Yes , that exactly what parent's who do truly cares with time should do.
You are truly right in what you said. The impact of a child in a family is not because is a male or a female but because, he or she accepted instructions of God given to him by their parents.
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Well detailed article by you keep it up. So you are the first male child to your mother. Wow.that means you have a big responsibility as a man. Like you said here.
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This is a good post. Your points are well made. The area I want to respond to is the part in which you said that relations will not "twist "things when there is a male firstborn in a family. This is not quite the position. Things were so bad for a family when it comes to a deceased estate when there is no male issue at all. The female children were disinherited but it is no longer the case. The Courts have decided that female children have right to inherit the father's property. What matters is not the sex that comes first but the training and preparedness to fit into the position of the parents when they are no more . Will a family scatter if a firstborn dies? Another child will step into the position. The firstborn cannot rule the family alone. Other siblings will assist for her to succeed. One person alone does not run a family. We should not split our hairs over this? Thank you.
Very well , so much like your perspective on that . What I meant don't necessarily touching inheritance , about normal male family meeting as concerns whole (extended or compound family from main root) family traced from first generation. Depending the culture . Most family host such meetings with only male children , that make up per heads count of existing families within the whole family concept.
Female child though a family that has no male child , when the father or head of such nuclear family is alive would be attending such meeting . But when he is no more , the daughters get married out and even not yet married . They are not permitted to attend such meetings.
But , in case which the family first child is a female child follows by others . Among which male child can get count . They have no problems at all on such whole family concept tradition. As the first daughter would be guided by father to further help the young male child concerns when he get grown up . Perhaps he passed on to joined his ancestors any moment sudden.
So I didn't meant any discrimination on female gender roles , along male and other siblings within her nuclear family.
Women are more likely to perform household chores than men. This is because women are more likely to have a job and have to work, which means they have less time for housework. They are also more likely to be responsible for children and other family members, which can make it harder for them to manage their time.
Here you added very right.
You have made a good speech that I love so much, by saying that parents should make the child chose what skill best for him or her and forge up .
@sureway044 your content is very good
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I love this part. Parents should assist in making the children ready for their future responsibilities especially the aspect of loving God. Thanks for sharing friend.
You have just made a nice post sir, please keep it up.
I really love your various contributions to the growth of your family sir.
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Thank , am grateful.