BLACK MONDAYS : LOOSING TWO FRIENDS IN TWO MONDAYS, 21/28-03-2022.

I am not happy at all. Life isn't fair at all. I didn't know that seeing you on 06/03/2022, will be the last we will see. I could remember asking you how you are doing and how your body... you answered me in the affirmative; "I am fine, thank God" was exactly your answer. This sickness has kept you away from church service few weeks before you returned. We were happy you did till this last 'struck' that snatched you away.

Have you ever lost a dear one? Have you been strucked by death before? Have you experience what it means to lose someone? The thought that you won't be able to see that person again is very painful. The fear of waking up to stair at the person's picture is unbearable. That's exactly how I feel now. I just lost another dear friend...the son of my family close friend, a boy of 10years...smart, intelligent boy, Destiny fondly called DD. Added to my church member we lost last week...all on Monday; 21 and today 28. I am really sad.

Aunty Chidimma During died of kidney and liver complications. The painful part is that no one knew exactly what was wrong with her till last minute. She never tell or at least confided on anyone even our pastor. She was sick yes, whenever anyone ask her what's really wrong, she will say she's fine. I took the opportunity of being close to her and asked her about her health, she claimed being ok. Even our medical team tried taking her to FMC, yet she refused. What was the problem?no one knew! How can you be hiding sickness? Now you are in the mortuary. All her body was swollen...we came to know that she's having kidney and liver issues yet she was keeping it to herself. Your three little kids are here crying...no father, now,no mother... is it fair? How can one continue to be secretive even when you are being ravished by sickness? Were you ashamed of telling your close friend about the sickness...the people who might have helped in one way or the other... even my husband aunty Mma, Your right hand man! Why?
I didn't cry the day my father died as much as I cried the day we heard of your death...I couldn't believe it. Even when we have all accepted to donate blood for you as the hospital demanded but you couldn't wait to receive them because you 'left' before it was morning. So sad because these kids a too small to be orphans. Chaiii!

Destiny, my boy. It's painful you are gone. But children can be strange atimes.... you fell down and you didn't tell anyone, not your dad or Mom. I know your siblings knew about that fall but never knew it's wrong to hide such things. The scan from your internal body detected blood clots in you which have blocked your lungs and affected your liver. Hey! These children won't kill us o! See how you suffered till you couldn't bear the pain even with life supports. Your parents have spent a fortune on your case yet it couldn't save you.... how painful! How is it going to be...they coming home from hospital without you, aahhh! Your elder sister and younger brother will ask of you... what will they say? This is going to be painful!

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