For me, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl that comes first. The bottom line is this, any child be it male or female, are a gift from God. And they should be trained in a godly way to become better and useful to the society. As per what you said about your educational background, you can upgrade, not necessarily in the conventional way. There's many online platforms in which this can be done. Determination is the key. Beautiful presentation!