Live life before life leaves you: @alandchi.
Greetings Everyone,
Live life before life leaves you!
LIFE:
Life, life is precious, so don't live it pretending to be someone your not.
Life it doing something you will look back and remember to be proud of, mistakes we've done and wish we could go back and set things right, given this beautiful life today, live it and live it doing what's good or right.
Live life before life leaves you:
Everything you do and have done has gotten you closer to who you really are and who you aspire to be. So in essence, even if you disagree with what you have done, it was never time wasted.
Who ever makes you cry will one day cry for you:
Laugh, even when you feel too sick or too worn out or tired.
Smile, even when you're trying not to cry and the tears are blurring your vision.
Sing, even when people stare at you and tell you your voice is crappy.
Trust, even when your heart begs you not to.
Twirl, even when your mind makes no sense of what you see.
Frolick, even when you are made fun of. Kiss, even when others are watching. Sleep, even when you're afraid of what the dreams might bring.
Run, even when it feels like you can't run any more.
And, always, remember, even when the memories pinch your heart. Because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the person you are now. And without your experience---you are an empty page, a blank notebook, a missing lyric. What makes you brave is your willingness to live through your terrible life and hold your head up high the next day. So don't live life in fear. Because you are stronger now, after all the crap has happened, than you ever were back before it started.
Nobody really cares for you more than your parents:
Sure, you talk to your parents, but what if you need to really talk? Maybe you have a problem you can't solve alone. Or it could be that you want to feel closer to your Mom and Dad.
It's easy to say "Hi, Mom" or "Dad, can you pass the potatoes?" It can be harder to start talking about personal topics. Still, it's good to confide in your parents. In fact, it can help a lot.
Be Brave and Start Talking
Let's face it, talking about personal stuff can feel embarrassing. But remember, your parents know you pretty well — and they were your age once, too! So don't let a little embarrassment stop you. It's OK to go ahead and share what's on your mind.
Sometimes we might think if we share a problem, they'll make our parent worried or upset. But your mom or dad can handle knowing about your problem, big or small. If they look concerned, it just means they care, and that they feel for you.
Sometime we might not bring up a problem because we just don't want to think about it — and hope it will just go away. But sweeping a problem under the rug hardly ever solves it. And bottling up your feelings can make you feel stressed.
Talking things over with your parent can help us feel less stressed. Together, you can think of ways to cope, solve the problem, and feel better. Just knowing your parent understands and cares about what you're going through can reduce your stress a lot.
Decide who you want to talk to. Do you want to talk to your Mom, your Dad, or both of them? Do you want to talk to a grandparent? An older sibling?
Always pick a good time and place to talk. Any time you're together can work. For example, when you're walking the dog, helping with the dishes, or driving in the car.
Think about what you need. Do you need your parent to just listen and understand what you're going through? Do you need permission for something? Do you want advice? Do you need to talk about trouble you're in?
Think of what you'll say. You can get started by saying things like:
"Mom, I need to tell you about a problem I'm having."
"Dad, I need to get your permission to go on a class trip next week. Can I tell you about it?"
"Grandma, I need your advice about something. Can we talk?"
"Mom, I did something I know was wrong. You might be mad, but I want to fix things, and I need your help. Can I tell you?"
Once you get started, your mom or dad will listen and talk, too. Then you can have more of a back-and-forth discussion.
Explain your situation. Give details that can help parents understand your situation. Explain what you think, feel, and want.
Be honest. If you're always honest, your parent will be likely to believe what you say. If you sometimes hide the truth or add too much drama, parents will have a harder time believing what you tell them. If you lie, they'll find it hard to trust you.
So creating a good bond by honesty helps and build parents and children relationship.
Everything heals over the time just breath:
We all need to take a deep breath every now and then, especially when the stressors of life seem too overbearing. Anxiety has a funny way of taking over our lives and sometimes even hinders our ability to simply breathe.
Take a deep breath in. Hold it for six seconds. Let it out.
We all need to take a deep breath every now and then, especially when the stressors of life seem too overbearing. Anxiety has a funny way of taking over our lives and sometimes even hinders our ability to simply breathe.
Breathe When Life Won't Let You
Whether it is school, work, a relationship, or family that is stressing you out, setting time aside for yourself is key to maintaining a healthy mind. The next time you start to feel a little sense of anxiety or panic coming along, put your hand on your chest and remind yourself that you have both feet firmly on the ground. You are in control and you have the power to calm your body down during those super stressful moments.
It can be really hard to remind yourself to breathe, even though we do it subconsciously 24/7, so instead, use these "just breathe" quotes to remind you to simply take a deep breath in ... and let it out.
When I'm really done i live in silence. I only fight when i care!:
I only fight when I care.
I have learned that when sadness comes to visit me, all I can do is say "I see you." I spend some time with it, get up, and say goodbye.
Different people, different color, no stays, everyone fades:
Love has its own color, Share it with someone before it fades away. I wanted everything to stay the same but feelings fade and people change.
None of us knew how terribly these two fine people suffered in secret. I do not think that they ever stopped loving each other, but deep down in their nature, they did not belong to one another.
So no matter people change things change.
Sometimes you just have to disconnect and enjoy your own company:
It is part of our human nature to desire the companionship of others. There are times we wish to be surrounded by those whom we feel connected to, and we turn to relationships to satisfy our innate desire for a bond.
We dread loneliness so badly that we get anxious when we find ourselves alone and desperately search for partners. We are scared that our partners would stop being fond of us, or that our friends might abandon us.
Sometimes, we are so scared of ending up alone that we prefer staying with the wrong people, enduring the consequences of a toxic relationship.
There is much more a relationship should offer than just being around someone, and you should not settle for less. You don’t need the approval of anyone else but yourself. It could be your choice to be single, there is nothing wrong with you if you choose to be alone and learn to treat yourself well while waiting for the right person.
You are your permanent one in your life so just love yourself:
Yes, self-love is probably one of the most important thing you can accomplish in your life. So start with that first, and then expand your love.
#selflove.
She's fixing herself for herself so don't distract her:
Sometimes bad things fall apart so good things can fall together. Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick and get yourself together. Fixing yourself for yourself, don't be distracted, if you're not ready to add value to one's life do go wasting someone's time.
One day you will receive the happiness you prayed for:
Hold on to faith, prayer is the raising of one's mind and heart to God or the requesting of good things from God.It is better in prayer than rather put out your light.
#Your happiness will come.
Appreciated.