SteemAlive Presents: ProWritersHub (W4) -How Traditional Marriage is performed in my Hometown, by @afshaan

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Hy dear Steemians it's me Afshaan from Pakistan and I'm here to participate in my 4th task and the topic is How Traditional Marriage is performed in my Hometown, City or Community. Tradition is something that we have learned to live with and love. It is something that has been passed down for generations and is something that we are so grateful for.


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People in the whole world celebrate their events, festivals and other things according to their tradition. Some people are more conscious about traditions and some are less but at the time they both following the traditions. As I mentioned above I live in Pakistan and Pakistani peoples are more conscious about their traditions. They always follow their tradition in any state of life.


Pakistanis are very proud of their culture and their rich heritage. They believe that their culture is a gift to the world and should be shared with everyone. Pakistani people have always been open to other cultures and have shown great hospitality towards other people. Pakistanis have a strong sense of family and community which they cherish and love.


Marriages in Pakistan

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Wedding ceremonies in Pakistan are a unique blend of tradition and modernity. The traditional process of a marriage ceremony consists on following steps.
1. Engagement
2. Mayon
3. Mehndi
4. Baarat
5. Walima

A traditional Pakistani marriage ceremony consists on above steps. I would like to explain all steps one by one with complete details.


Engagement Ceremony

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Engagement ceremonies are a traditional part of Pakistani culture. Engagement ceremonies in Pakistan are not like most of the ceremonies around the world. These ceremonies are not about love and marriage but about family heritage and social status.
Engagement ceremonies were traditionally and still are performed in the bride's home, with the groom's family arriving at the house bringing with them gifts of jewelry, clothes, and other items. The ceremony usually lasts until night, the Groom's family and bride's family give an engagement ring to each other
Then the date of couple's marriage is officially announced.


Mayon

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My friend on his Mayon


After the announcement of wedding the first event of Pakistani marriage is Mayon. This ceremony individually celebrated in bride's and Groom's house. In this ceremony their families offer them some sweets and also apply some yellow paste containing turmeric on their faces, arm's and legs. This ceremony is performed two days before the wedding and one day before the Mehndi ceremony


Mehndi

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My friend on his Mehndi's Function


A Mehndi ceremony is a traditional coming-of-age celebration in which the girl's hand is decorated with henna to signify her transition into womanhood. The ceremony also typically includes religious prayers, food, and entertainment. This occasion is often celebrated by family and friends who gather to give the girl their blessing.This ceremony is performed individually in the groom and bride's house.


Baarat

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Groom on wedding (my friend)


Baarat the main function of every marriage ceremony in Pakistan. On this day bride move towards the groom's house with him. A Baraat ceremony is a traditional Muslim wedding ceremony in which the groom's family members and friends visit the bride's house.The bride's family serves food to the guests and then the Nikah performed by a religious scholar. Nikah is a religious ritual in which the bride and the groom get married


Walima

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Me with my friend on a Walima ceremony


Walima is also a religious ceremony when bride's family and friends came to groom's house. The bride's family is welcomed and fed by the groom's family, after which the groom accompanies the bride to the bride's house for two days and then returns to the bride and groom's house two days later and the wedding ceremony is over


Conclusion

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My friend with me after his marriage 🤪


Dear friends I tried my best to explain the whole marriage functions of a Pakistani marriage. Marriage ceremony in Pakistan is a big event and it remained for many days. Groom and bride received many gifts, fruits, sweets and also prayers from their grandparents. So friends I'll be their very soon with new topic till then take care, good bye.

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 2 years ago 

Honestly you did well in explaining how wedding is done in pakistan in a traditional way. The ladies look so beautiful and their Men appear very good to show that they read for something serious.
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Thank you so very much for your precious review you right on day of marriage bride even look more beautiful thanks again

 2 years ago 

Your traditional wedding is such an awesome one and. I so much love the dresses.
You have really done well by telling us how wedding is being done in your hometown

Yes brother this is the beauty of Pakistani culture when ever you visit Pakistan must attend Pakistani Marriage i hope you enjoy a lot. Thanks for your comment

 2 years ago 

You really did a great job explaining everything about how the go about traditionally marriage in your town.
and I really enjoyed reading your post.

Thanks alot brother you will enjoy more and more if you ever attend this marriage thanks again for your precious comment

 2 years ago 

Thanks bro.

 2 years ago (edited)

Wow, I was actually waiting for this part of your post
You did more than well by explaining in details how traditional marriage is celebrates in ya locality. That mayon ceremony is just so funny, take a second look at your friend's face which has been decorated with tumeric😜🤣🤣

Hahaha thanks for detailed comment this ceremony was full of enjoyment

 2 years ago 

You're welcome

Okk

Wow I really love all your marriage ceremonies most especially when it comes to the aspect of the bride they are always looking beautiful.

Thanks Princess

You are welcome.

 2 years ago 

Wow @afshaan,you guys really do things very well.

As there are lots of decoration been put on the bride and in that process she looks very beautiful.

There are lots of drink and food.

Thanks alot brother I'm very thankful to you for your precious comment there is also many events in Pakistani marriages i hope you enjoyed my post thanks again

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