Future - How to stop being afraid of it

in LAKSHMI4 years ago

Our thoughts about the future evoke a different spectrum of emotions. Someone is afraid of changes and their consequences, someone worries about the well-being of their loved ones or the prospects of a newly started project, someone is used to living by someone else's rules and never knows what to expect, and someone is so prone to perfectionism that expects in advance from the future the inability to meet their high expectations.

But you don't have to worry about the future. Life is happening to us at the moment and if we learn to do everything 100%, to work on changes every day, we will begin to live happily and following our goals. And what may happen in the ghostly “tomorrow” will no longer scare us.

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All we need to overcome the fear of the future is clarity. Below are some easy ways to get started creating your ideal lifestyle today.

Uncertainty doesn't mean bad. This is part of life, we must accept it and learn to live with it. Otherwise, life can turn into a constant struggle.

You don't have to know what tomorrow will bring. Focus on what is today, do everything in your power.

Of course, you have to follow your personal plan, but sometimes the only thing that needs to be done is to entrust the current situation to the Universe. She certainly knows what you need now. This approach to some situations will not allow you to overload yourself and will give you peace of mind.

The scenarios that you play in your head are actually an illusion. And how great it is that we do not know the future - this enables the Universe to implement something much more grandiose and important than our own "scenario".
Don't let negative thoughts, doubts, and fear of failure get in the way of living the way you want to. Leave all the bad things in the past.

Practice mindfulness, start living consciously by letting go of the past and the future.

The best thing you can do is enjoy the moment, do what you enjoy, take care of the people who are important to you, and devote time to meaningful events that will bring results. Everything else is not that high priority.

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What is the point in constantly thinking, fearing the future and complaining that you do not know what awaits you next? All this is pointless. It forces you to ignore the value in the day. All you need to do is return to the present and start acting.

Start small. First, write down how you would like to see your life, write down goals and divide them into specific actions, also set yourself a deadline. Now you will clearly know what to do every day, and thus replace uncertainty with action.

If you are waiting for something, then let it be the best. Do you remember that anything is possible? So why not be sure the best is yet to come?

Uncertainty can be overcome with preparation. Learn how to properly take care of yourself, your health, time, finances, relationships and life in general. It's never too late to learn something new for yourself in different areas. Yes, it will take patience, persistence and acceptance of your mistakes, but the result is worth it.

The future is connected with the new and the unknown. It often scares us, but just look at it from the other side: facing the future means stepping out of your comfort zone in your personal and professional life, challenging yourself, and constantly improving. The future is always new opportunities that can turn into something that will radically change your life.

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Don't take life too seriously. Spend time with those who make you laugh and avoid those who upset you. Find beauty in everything that surrounds you, live boldly and adventurously, read motivating literature, watch comedies, look for new hobbies. And most importantly, do it with pleasure.

If you do all this, then you simply will not have time for doubts and fears. All this will allow you not only to combine work with entertainment, but also become more productive, happy and successful.

Are there still reasons not to love the future? All the fun is ahead and it can happen at any moment. Change your attitude towards life - and “tomorrow” will no longer cause alarm, but only anticipation.


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