child is not the instrument to meet your expectations

child is not the instrument to meet your expectations

It is clear from the statistics of the suicide of the educators that the fear of not being able to meet the expectations of the parents can be overwhelming.

Nowadays, the news of suicide of students is often exposed only when the newspaper opens. Statistics show that this trend is increasing rapidly among modern-day educators. The matter is of considerable concern. If young children fall prematurely before they develop, that talent is dead. One of the reasons for this is so much mental stress. Especially the frustration of not being able to meet the expectations of the parents. How dire the consequences of this disappointment can be is clear from the suicide statistics of the educators.

There have been many discussions in the media about the touching subject, the blame, the retaliation has been blamed. Occasionally the instruction came to reduce the load on the back of the student. The curriculum has been lightened, new methods have been imposed. But the expectation of parents could not be pulled.

In the current education system, learning is gradually becoming secondary. Making money is the main goal. The mental development of the student is not important there. From the last decade of the twentieth century, the open market education system also became a way of making a profit like a corporate entity.

The middle class Indian society has suffered the most in this education system. They are misguided in the illusion of high quality education. The expectations of their children go down. In fact, children are the target of the parents' highest investment at present. Parents are ready to spend any amount of money in exchange for alluring jobs. They want, not the development of the child. Only high quality. As a result, the rat race of the competition is being made. And adolescent girls are upset by the pressure of this unequal competition. They are choosing the gallows to get rid of this unbearable trap.

But suicide is not a solution. People have been overcoming adversity for ages. Has learned to adapt himself to the situation. Has adapted himself physically and mentally. The child needs to be developed that way. For this, the role of parent and teacher is equally important.

The child's first education begins at home, with parents. They are the child's biggest teacher. So the child needs to be understood by not being swept away by the stream. His desire, needs to be given importance. Both parents need time for the baby. The wishes of the child parents will not be a form of reluctance. Rather, curiosity should be aroused in the child. His work or success should be appreciated. Make the child confident. On the other hand, the school is the child's second home. The teacher is the guardian here. They also have to be sympathetic to the students.
The student has to be saved from death. Their success will come from itself.