Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple

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STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE_{Dream Couple}

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every living thing was created in pairs by Allah SWT, even Allah SWT also mentions in the Qur'an, an verse 49 which means: And We created everything in pairs so that you remember (the greatness of Allah)." (QS. Az Zariyat: 49 ), as we know the function of a partner is a place where we share joy and sorrow, everyone must have their own criteria in choosing their life partner, regardless of that we can only surrender to the almighty creator
actually the criteria for a partner have even been regulated by the Islamic religion, how to find the criteria for a good partner according to the Islamic religion, the criteria set by the Islamic religion are my criteria

• I am very grateful, my current life partner is the ideal partner that I have wanted for a long time before I knew him, in a household good communication is necessary in order to create a harmonious household, in fact our heroic struggle is to wait for a year for the time to study at boarding school

• actually in the stages of our marriage there were no serious obstacles, it's just that in our wedding year the obstacles were just when the covid-19 season was rife so everything was very difficult to take care of

• my partner's criteria are, who understand each other, who is good in religion, and most importantly can make me a better person

• the important point in marriage is good communication, I prioritize communication more than anything else, and a sense of comfort will also appear by itself if communication between each other is good

• actually a person's happiness is different, the size of happiness when married is having a partner who understands each other is the most beautiful gift

• actually marriage requires mental, physical and economic readiness, in my opinion there is nothing wrong with early marriage but if there is a ban on early marriage there must be a reason behind all that why early marriage is prohibited

maybe there are some people who marry at an old age but apart from all that we don't know the reason why, but in my opinion that's also not a problem because we don't know the reason behind it all,

the benchmark of inner happiness
being married is not a measure of age, but understanding each other, and taking care of each other's attitude is the key to household harmony

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