I am not sure whose to blame. I noticed two things (from life, travelling and living abroad) if you pamper people, make their bed they sit, wait, pray to be "saved" by someone while complaining and there's a large number of people with a lack of will to change their lives. They will not even grab the piece of gold if it's in front of their nose because they have to bend forward.

Can I see who's downvoting me?