The Need For Balance

A warm regards to each and everyone of you beautiful ladies and mothers in this community. Hope all of you are doing great and fine, for me am doing just fine.

I want to start by sincerely appreciating all of our beautiful and caring mothers for hard work in taking care of your husband and children in addition to own personal affairs as a person.

It's sad to see that some ladies have given too much attention to their responsibility as wives to the extent that the forgot or overlook the need for them to maintain a good, clean and attractive appearances especially when the are at home.

Many of you will agree with me that before getting married and starting your own family, physical appearance was a major aspect of a lady's life, but sad to say that after getting married some women tend to lower their taste for good and attractive appearance, so there is a great need for balance in this regard as there are a lot of benefits that come with doing this.

It is Interesting to note that when a wife and mother takes good care of herself and her appearance, she definitely feels good about herself, this feeling in turn contribute to a positive impact on her mood and outlook. Experience shows that a mother who feels good about herself is more prone to be patient and understanding towards her children, and more importantly they are more emotionally available for their husbands.

It is also important to know that maintaining a clean and beautiful appearance contributes to the quality of the relationship between husbands and wives. Many a times we heard stories of how married men have affairs with other ladies outside. Although there is no excuse for doing that but experience and studies shows that some of these men do this because they were attracted to these other ladies because of their neat and beautiful appearances.

So our dear friends who are married and has children, continue to give attention to your physical appearance, there is nothing wrong with wearing some nice and attractive even when you are staying and working at home.

There is nothing wrong with doing make up even though you are not going out, why should you be fun of tiring wrappers always, it doesn't speak well of you, do not push your man to another woman hands because of your dressing and appearance.

It's a known fact that the you mothers has a lot of responsibility but please let's endeavour to balance between this duties and responsibilities while you take care of yourself and your appearance.