"Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple”
Good day once again to everyone, my name is oluwatimileyin and I welcome you to the season 9 of the engagement challenge.
I welcome you to my participation in the week 1 of the Engagement contest with the title: Dream Couple.
There is nothing I would want more than a partner I could be with, someone to share the thick and thin moments with, so therefore let me use this opportunity to discuss the things I'm looking forward to in my dream relationship.
I understand that finding the ideal partner / the exact person you want is not an easy task especially for a lady, It requires a lot of time, and patience to find the perfect match, someone that their vibe flows with yours.
But life works in a mystery way, so for this, I could count myself lucky enough to say that my current partner is my ideal type / exact type of what I wanted , we are just 2years into the relationship and it felt like it has been like this forever.
We have not always been the perfect boyfriend's and girlfriend, we have been through our own way of struggles, especially with communication, but we have learned to work with it together. Our relationship has helped us grow together and work better versions of ourselves. It was not easy, but it's worth the effort and the effort will surely count one day.
No sir, me and my partner are yet to be married. The obstacles that we both faced in the relationship is the fact that we are both still in university.
We have not yet gotten married because we are still young and trying to build ourselves, we are both determined to make sure to use our early 20s to set things moving and not rush to things.
We both want to make sure that we meet some certain criteria first like having a stable job and also a good financial system before we take the next step of marriage.
I am not the type of person that have a long list of things i want in a man, I just prefer my man to be simple and reasonable, and he must meet the qualities of things I look for .
My ideal partner must be honest, loyal, and must have a good sense of humor, and not someone that is too serious about everything, I want a man that I could always catch fun with.
The qualities I just listed are important to me because they serve as a strong relationship foundation to me, It makes the relationship more enjoyable when you can share your experiences and every activities with your partner.
When it comes to relationship communication, I will surely pick comfort over beauty. Although, the beauty attraction is also important in a relationship, but communication is the key to any successful relationship, or before a relationship can even work
so therefore, I prefer to be with someone who I can communicate with comfortably and who equally understand me as well, as I believe that this is one of the important factor for a good relationship.
The measure of happiness for me when I get married is everything , as it comes from being able to share my life with someone who understands and supports me.
I have always find it important to be with someone who I can always trust and rely on, and who makes you feel loved and appreciated every single time, so happiness is one of the key feature I am looking forward to in my marriage.
Like works differently for everyone, some were able to achieve there end goal at the early stage in life, and some were only able to do this at their later age in life, I believe everyone is destined to be what they will be regardless of how fast they want to move.
Early marriage is better as this means you will be able to grow old with your partner, you will both have more than enough time to share experience, learn from each other mistakes and grow with it, if I'm to be of decision, I think early stage is one of the best time to get married to ones partner.
Here is where I pen down my entry to this contest, so therefore , I would use this moment to invite @yakspeace, @Lhorgic, and @jueco to participate in this contest as well.
Menghargai privasi dan ruang pribadi
Pasangan ideal adalah pasangan yang menghargai privasi dan ruang pribadi masing-masing.
That is one of the things than count as a great feature in a relationship.
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দেখুন প্রত্যেকটি মানুষের ইচ্ছা তার স্বপ্নের রাজকুমার বা রাজকুমারী তার মনের মত হবে. এটি বাস্তব এবং সত্য কথা. প্রত্যেকটি মানুষের চাওয়া পাওয়া তার শহরধর্মিনী বা সহধর্মী তাকে অনেক ভালবাসবে এবং সুখে রাখবে. ধন্যবাদ আপনাকে অনেক সুন্দর ভাবে উপস্থাপন করেছেন আপনার জন্য শুভকামনা রইল.
Thank you and best wishes to you too.
you have a good qualities in choosing your future partner. I am hoping you are patience in waiting when the right one comes.
Me thinks that marriage should be done later so that everyone can fulfill their dreams in life, unless you want to fulfill them together. But this is just my opinion. I wish you happiness!