Let us never adapt to what does not allow us to be happy

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We have all gone through a moment in which we adapt to some circumstance that is not really making us happy and, this has been in the same way as wearing shoes with the thought that it is our size however, at the time of taking the first step we discover that we can not walk and much less run because it is very uncomfortable.

Something we can never forget is that happiness does not generate pain for it, there is no need to oppress it; All we have to do is enjoy freedom and be masters of deciding which path we want to follow. Now, to achieve this happinesswe have the task of concentrating all our energy soul and body on everything that implies being happy. To complement this focus it is also important that we learn to categorize each situation because, if all the elements are significant, they will always add positive points in our lives, however, the things that we identify as not important must be discarded immediately because, they are not of our interest.

We can't make way for frustration

Several times I have had the intuition that, almost all people tend to adapt in an obligatory way to the daily routine and, we do it with all the awareness of knowing that we are not happy; situation that drastically distances us from emotional well-being. It should be noted that, in the world and life in general, things will always happen that will make us dream, want to enjoy and live to the fullest; To achieve this, all we have to do is move from everything we do not like because, by deciding to live captive to routine, we are automatically condemning ourselves to unhappiness.

Happiness is a choice that helps us flow

This topic has made me reflect on the fact that we practically adapt to a situation because, it is a way to guarantee that we will be following you and this analogy I could decipher when thinking that, when we are in our stage of infants, our parents are responsible for teaching us to make double knot to the braids of our shoes since, If we step on them we can trip and in this fall a spectacular accident can be caused. In the same way, they lovingly wrapped us up when we went to sleep or failing that, they were aware of our coats so that we felt warm and very well cared for.

Happiness allows us to shine with our own light

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Most of the time they did that, we were previously uncomfortable and when we finally had that attention from them, we managed to feel safe. However, when we get older, we have the responsibility of being adults but, that same need to feel safe is maintained by it, we refuse to leave comfort even if we are in a scenario where we are not being happy. It may seem curious but, in these circumstances the brain is the one who perceives all this for it, the emotions it emits to us is of sensitivity since, it does not sympathize with the changes and if it intuits any risk or threat, much less.

It is necessary to mention that, the control over us really has the brain and if we want this not to be so, we have the task of disciplining him in order to send him the necessary indications so that he understands that, the control of our thoughts and feelings is ours, not him and if we are not being happy, we will leave without any inconvenience of that context because we are in the world to be happy and, Not to survive from circumstances that are frustrating us and shutting us down little by little.

Leaving comfort is synonymous with evolving

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Keep in mind that adaptation will never be synonymous with achieving happinessbecause, if there is something that we human beings do not produce is adaptation, this is only generated by circumstance when in our mind we give way to the very comfortable and conformism. I have witnessed scenarios where I see that sentimental couples, despite knowing that there is no love between them, prefer to stay together because they are afraid to start from scratch and according to the philosophy they handle, it is preferable to keep it safe than to start a new path because, happiness has already been lived and they consider that they do not deserve more.

Getting out of what does not make us happy, is to free ourselves from negative charges

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Another very common scenario that occurs in these circumstances is that, at all costs, loneliness must be fled andto ensure that it does not take over our lives, a malicious adaptation is created in which practically, the person is deprived of enjoying freely everything wonderful that can enjoy in life. This reality is also experienced in the work environment because, some people in order to have a fixed income, leave aside the displeasure or discomfort generated by the job they have. Adopting this position is wrong therefore, we must try to have a job where we enjoy what we are doing and we can feel very comfortable.

Happiness implies that we are willing to make decisions and, for nothing in the world we can give rise to fear because although we are afraid of change, it is necessary to evolve and, leaving our comfort zone will always allow us to exploit all the skills we possess. I am sure that, if we dare to challenge ourselves, we will have the opportunity to know the beautiful artistic design that is life. Remember that, to be happy it is only necessary to make the decision to live being happy.