Steemit Engagement Challenge S9 -W1 | Dream Couple

Hello all steemians friends, how are you all hopefully given convenience in all activities, today, I will start participating in a contest that has been held by the STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE community with the theme Steemit Engagement Challenge S9 -W1 | Dream Couple

Is your current partner your choice and your ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle.

In every religion there are rules and laws, both in marriage and in married life. Marriage will be a person's life, entering into a marriage is not an easy and trivial thing, that's where we start fighting for or building a new family, in religion it is not given underage marriage, especially in Islam, marriage must fulfill the conditions set in religion especially when they are mature, they are able to make a living, and they have a perfect mind, so as to avoid commotion and divorce, the act that is most hated in Islam is divorce, even though it is legal, it is strictly prohibited, right?

Even though matchmaking, fortune, and death have been determined, we as people of faith are obliged to try, especially in making a living, that's where it is strictly prevented for underage marriages *** early marriage ***. I got married at a very mature age because I was busy with education. Thank God I've been building a family for almost ten years, and I have found a wife who is to my heart's desire and loyal to take care of my family life. I have been with her for about ten years. Currently we have two sons, even though the first child has passed away and we are very grateful that we still have one more son, My wife is very sincere in her marriage and wants to give the best for her children. I am very happy and grateful to have met a woman as good as her. And he wants to cover all aspects of his shortcomings, not grumbling too much.

We got married on March 13, 2017. But it's interesting that my marriage to him wasn't all that great. Because there are several regulations that apply among the community, the customs and regulations that apply cannot be changed, we must follow them even if they are sober, the regulations that have been set or apply within one month are only given permission to hold weddings for only 2 brides, and two years given permission in a family only one person there I can not do anything just follow the rules that have been set.

I don't have to struggle or experience delays. He married me when I was still living in a cottage, I married him at the age of less than 23 years, in going through a marriage I have no doubts I believe and believe in doing all of this.

What obstacles did you face when you wanted to get married, or why aren't you married yet?

In going through a marriage I did not experience any obstacles, because my wife and I have agreed and are able to deal with anything that happens in fostering family relationships, and we agree to cover all aspects of life.
This is where I don't talk much, Alhamdulillah until now our life is still harmonious and peaceful.

What are your ideal partner criteria?

In a family there must be mutual support, trust, and openness, that is where a harmonious family is created. a wife must tell and be open with her husband. Always tell and ask permission from the husband and always seek the pleasure of the husband. On the other hand, the wife must be full of respect and charm in front of her husband.

Do you prioritize beauty or convenience in communicating? Why?

Everyone wants beauty, especially a man wants his wife to be beautiful and seductive in front of him, especially when the husband comes home with a tired face, the wife must bring a face that can beat the husband's fatigue, which makes the husband forget the work that makes him tired. Everyone has lofty dreams when they can marry a beautiful woman and it is hoped that they will always be by her side.

Communication between husband and wife is very much needed in order to create distance between the relationship between husband and wife, if there is no communication, it is very likely to become chaos and debate in the husband-wife relationship, most likely the relationship will be broken, so communication is very important.

What is the measure of your happiness in marriage?

Every religion is encouraged to get married, there are only slight differences according to the rules that apply in each religion, except for a few who don't have to get married. I want to say marriage and happiness is in God's hands, we just pray and try. That's just my short story, thank you very much for your attention and visit, sorry for mistakes and mistakes.

Greetings of friendship for all steemians friends:

@muniss