"Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple”

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"Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple”

17/04/2023
Monday

Hello Everyone. I am @mostofajaman from Bangladesh .

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Hello my friends how are you all hope you are well alhamdulillah i am also fine. today i am going to participate in this engagement contest with you .first of all thank you very much to this STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE community and thank you my friend @irawandedy . so let's start .
Is your current partner your choice and ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle.
In the religion we believe in, it is stated that every human being is in the hands of his Lord, including birth, death and marriage. Especially marriage will be the time in a man's life when his Lord will agree with him. They are more subject to the hadith that his wife will be just like that in terms of character.

But I want to tell you Alhamdulillah I am very good in this aspect. I have found a wife according to my heart and my family life has been with her for about five years. We currently have a daughter whom you see often through my diary posts. My wife is very sincere in marriage and is a shoe user. I am very pleased with him and he is very pleased with me. Many times lack comes in our life but peace in people's life is lost during the time of lack. Alhamdulillah, this has never happened to us.

We got married on 2 February 2017. But here is an interesting thing that my marriage with him was not much fanfare. Only a few of us from the family went and got married. I did not have to fight or suffer any delay to get him. She married me when I was unemployed. But one thing I can say is that when I married her she was less than 18 years old so I stole her from home and married her in Kazi office. Her father brought him this way. Our marriage was done in Kazi office. Our marriage was done beautifully so there was no historical struggle which I will present to you.

What are the obstacles you faced when you wanted to get married, or why haven't you gotten married yet?

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when we are newly married couple

Yes, I faced a small danger when I went to get married. I did not want to present the matter to you, but I have to do it. When I got married I was over 20 years old and my wife was under 18 years old. Now the issue is that according to the laws of Bangladesh, marriage cannot be done unless the age of the boy is 24 years and the age of the girl is 18 years. If we have to complete this marriage then we have to do it behind the eyes of the government. Don't let us get married if we want to complete this marriage.

For this my father-in-law stole my daughter and brought her to the Qazi office of another village and we went to the Qazi office from where our marriage was completed only through Islamic martyrdom by our parents. Our wedding was not decorated with fanfare at that time. Since then our life is going on like this.

What are the criteria for your ideal partner?
I have the basket of qualities of an ideal wife. I am trying to present to you some of the most important of them.I think a wife must be open minded with her husband. Always speak the truth to everyone and behave nicely. On the one hand, he should be full of respect and charm, on the other hand, he should be funny and mysterious.

The most important thing is that no matter how a boy and a girl are before marriage, but after marriage it is better to live life in harmony with each other. Living like this will increase love and respect for each other. At every stage of life I wish I could live with my wife for a few more days.

Do you prioritize beauty or comfort in communication? Why?
Yes of course. People worship beauty. Every man wants his wife to be beautiful or like his mind. The tiredness of the whole day comes to him as if he forgets it instantly. Every boy has a dream that his wife will be very beautiful and she will always be by his side. Communication is a matter where husband and wife grow rapidly and distance is also created between their relationship. If there is no communication, there is confusion in the relationship and at one time the relationship is lost and the distance increases. So communication and communication is very important. Through communication, the mind is created with each other and it is possible to forget the faults. Maya love for each other is created. But these are not far away.
What is your measure of happiness when you get married?

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This is a very important question. Every person in the world has to get married one day or another. Many people are afraid to get married. I want to say here that both marriage and happiness are in the hands of Allah. So one should trust in Allah. Anyway, you can understand how much I am happy with my marriage or what are the limits of my happiness when you see us through this picture. Alhamdulillah we are very well and have joined each other's hearts. Moreover, our relationship has become stronger since the birth of our daughter. With him, we have no corners of happiness. Mother, father, younger sister, wife and my daughter and I are our little family together. We are all very happy and happy Alhamdulillah.
What do you think about early marriage or older marriage?
See this topic has been discussed and reviewed a lot. Experts have given many opinions. The matter is extremely important. I would like to say here that a girl or a boy should be bound by marriage as soon as they enter their youth. Because during youth, boys and girls are pushing their lives towards ruin by watching pornography or various adult movies, but if they are married in this situation, they will never have such a mindset, they will get mental peace and physical peace.

I think that the elderly should not marry. Because when the age increases, it becomes very difficult to create a relationship with each other and it is not possible to get physical and mental satisfaction. Various diseases can occur and can become weak at certain times. So I think one should get married at a young age or youth in order to make good use of one's youth and to stay away from committing various sins.

Thanks to everyone who had to say so far. Everyone please pray for my family.Here is invitation @msharif, @nadiaturrina ,@ripon0630, @solaymann.

With best regards,
@mostofajaman

Thank you all for reading my post. Stay well everyone. Hope you like my post.

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    What a risk you took to be united! But your father-in-law could make huge trouble if he wished. Anyway, Alhumdullilah you are enjoying a happy life now.

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    yes. Thanks for comment 🙋‍♂️

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      Kompromi dan kesepakatan
      Pasangan ideal adalah pasangan yang mampu melakukan kompromi dan mencapai kesepakatan yang saling menguntungkan bagi keduanya

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        আপনি ঠিক বলেছেন।ধন্যবাদ আপনাকে মন্তব্য করার জন্য।

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          Terima kasih banyak sudah berkomentar

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          Thank you, friend!
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             last year 

            What an interesting piece you have!

            Although early marriage is good, I must say, you married your wife underage according to law.
            This is quite earlier.

            Well, I'm happy to hear you enjoy your marriage now which is what matters most.
            Good luck!

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              Thank you so much for nice comment 🙋‍♂️

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                The most important idea is that a wife must be open minded, speak the truth, be respectful and charming, and live life in harmony with her husband to increase love and respect.
                What a writing! I like it brother.

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                  Thanks brother for like my writing 🙋‍♂️

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                    You got married very young, but the most important thing is that you are happy.

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                      Yes i got married very young. And it’s true i am happy 😊. Thanks for comment. 🙋‍♂️

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