Good evening everyone. How is your day going my friends? Hope with the blessings of Almighty God everyone is well and leading a healthy beautiful life. Alhamdulillah, today I'm also excellent. I am here to participate in the Steemit Engagement challenge S9-W2 and today I am going to take part in the contest organized by the STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE community. Their theme for this week is "Easy come, easy go". Great contest and hope you all enjoy reading my article. So let's get into the main topic.

What do you understand about Easy Come, Easy Go?

The phrase Easy Come, Easy go implies that something can be easily acquired and gone before it’s value is realized. Since childhood, I have seen that my grandfather and father used to plant paddy in our compound and they used to harvest paddy in the hot summer sun. And they used to hire me and my brother to help them but we were unable to work in the heat of the sun.

At that time my grandfather used to tell us that sometimes something you get easily can't be kept for long. You are getting this paddy now without any effort of yours but won't it be hard for you to get it when we are gone? And he used to say that through hard work you will experience as much as you get and what you get will last longer and you will realize how important it is. And I realize that anything that comes easily without hard work is more likely to be fleeting.

Have you ever experienced a condition in life like that ? Share your experience if you have any.

I am a child of a middle class family where it is very difficult to get anything easily. Besides, I never expected to get anything easily from outside. Providing three meals a day for the whole family is our main job and we have to work hard to do that. And to be honest I have never had such an experience. I always like to be happy with little things that keep me happy all the time. I think expecting more than I deserve is one of the biggest causes of my unhappiness. And if something comes easily in my life then I prefer to keep it aside because I believe in hard work so I don't expect to get anything easily.

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How did you deal with the instant success that disappears in a short time?

Although I have no experience of getting anything easily, it is important to know how to deal with something like this. Many times in people's lives, many things can be easily accessible beyond their expectation, but it goes away again to not deal with it properly. I have already said that I am not happy to get anything easily, but rather who likes to achieve it.

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I have learned from my family that without hardwork there is no substitute for being successful in life. So if I get something easily, I must make an effort to fully own it and hold on to it. And if something comes to me and is very important to me, I will work hard to hold on to it. Once something is achieved if you don't maintain it, one day it will be lost, so I have to believe in hard work.

What lesson can be drawn from this expression?

Sometimes many things come easily in our life. But maybe we don't value that thing if we don't get it in exchange for hard work. But it is very important to pay attention to every aspect of life. Nothing is ever easy to come by and if it comes unexpectedly easy it is important to value it otherwise it will last for a while. So from this phrase it is clear that if we don't value the things that are easily available, we don't have them for long.

What if you associate the statement above with a romantic relationship If you have any, could you describe it?

The phrase "Easy Come, Easy Go" is used in everything in our lives and I think it is more involved with romantic relationships. It does not take long for us to build relationships with each other in our lives, and that relationship lasts long and in many cases for the miniature. And I think in the case of a miniature, that is a relationship for the sake of the essence. And we call it Easy Come, Easy Go.

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In a romantic relationship, I think it's a difficult relationship that may seem simple but not easy. Even though I have no such experience, I have seen it for others.I saw that they had created a romantic relationship within a few days, but later it was gone. Behind it is the interest, as well as for plays and movies. We want to reconcile the unreal with the real, but the reality is completely different. So seeing that a romantic relationship is created, that relationship easily goes away.So we should understand the importance of each relationship and it should be properly maintained which never goes easily.

Thanks to everyone for reading my article. Before I finish my article I invite @solaymann @waterjoe, @m-fdo, @nishadi89, @goodybest and @jyoti-thelight for this wonderful contest.

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