Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W2: "Easy Come, Easy Go"

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I bring you greetings friends! How are you doing today? I hope you are doing very well as usual and you are very healthy and fit also. Am very happy to have spotted this week engagement challenge in Steem for better life community. And multivated to share my experience and ideas considering the philosophy of the topic: "Easy come, Easy go".

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What do you understand about Easy Come, Easy Go?

Easy come easy go, is more like a success without sacrifice or effort that leads it's arrival. Therefore, easy come easy go, is an experience of sudden immagence of an achievement which tarries for a short while, and fizzles away through the window of void as easy as it comes, leaving no history or trace of destination. This experience is inherent in wealth, money, wife, business boom and many more. Their arrivals are such easy but vanishes to the thin air as effortlessly as they come.

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Have you ever experienced a condition in life like that ? Share your experience if you have any.

Yes I had experience of this condition in money, there this time, my family members was paid some substantial amount of money by MTN where their mast fall within the family landed property, and I was one of the huge beneficiary who happens to even had the larger share of the payment. I was paid and I deposited the money in my bank account and was only withdrawing it a bit by bit, adding to my stock business while time passes by, upon all I had thought of appling the money on, including my education, very unreasonable circumstances continuous to emernate till the entire money went off as simple means as I received it and my business went back to the little beginning.

How did you deal with the instant success that disappears in a short time?

Yes, to manage or deal with instant success is to realise or borne it in mind that it's rather opportunistic and requires extra consciousness and security of management to keep it. In the same vein, in connection with my experience above, I had to proceed back to the gathering level, having the understanding that I was over confident and relaxed in spending thinking that as bulk as the money was, it would not finish so fast which was never the truth and since then, whenever I have some opportunities of such, I maintain my previous efforts and spending tendencies in other to sustain and uphold the sudden success.

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What lesson can be drawn from this expression?

There are great lessons to be learn, whenever one encounter opportunistic success, the person shouldn't grow lazy enjoying it, instead, previous efforts should be doubled. No over confidence and relaxation, over spending, otherwise ignoring any other responsibilities because it's presumed a sudden and effortless success. It's wisdom to face self proper management in all cause and condition, never success multivation. should it be there no more? where is the solid ground to hold. Moreso, any withdrawal without replacement is poverty. Wife instance married effortlessly sometimes is bullied because it cost him nothing and such wife might not stay. This is the need of self safe training, education and experience to control things in their manners of emergence.

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What if you associate the statement above with a romantic relationship If you have any, could you describe it?

Yes I could, I had a girlfriend who came to me just so easy, from visiting her female friends who happened to be my neighbour, we began to relate in good and effective communication. She was flying around me up and down, never even allowed me spending much money on her. She was very caring and romantic, in a good day play, I would asked her do you have a boyfriend? She Will say no that her relationship ended soon she finished secondary school. And she continued with me to the extend that my community had started calling her my wife. Sometimes, people report to me of the place where they so my wife. One day, I traced her community and it was big lies I found out from the parents indirectly that she is betrothed to someone who is away but just gave her some time to complete her part time studies. And came back meeting him already in my home as usual. I told him about my discovery, she was silent, and managed to node her head it's true but she doesn't like the guy but me. I told her to stop coming with a heavy heart that our tradition forbids it. And she cried herself away. It's a long story but this is easy come easy go of my own relationship experience.

Thank you great and wonderful friends in here for making it with me to the concluding part of my take on this week engagement challenge "easy come easy go". I invite @bella90, @entiy01 and @josepha.

Thank you very much.