Let's talk! №8 - What is the best age for first sex?
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What is the best age for first sex?
This is a strong question that is difficult to answer and trust me, you can not get an answer for this question, everyone will talk his or her mind and most will be based on where the person grew up.
But to me, the best age is when married, why, because we learn from school that chastity is very good and the benefits are outstanding, we all know how respectful it's for one to stay chaste till married, everyone respects the person and it feels like the person is on top of the world.
Come to think if it, there's nothing like chastity anymore, because the world is fast grow, technology has made it like if you’re a teen and you’ve never had sex then you’re just kinda dumb or something lol. We’re are all exposed to porn and this triggers us to just taste and feel how sex is, even most of the parents today don’t even care, they can have sex in front of kids, which is bad and leads to early sex age.
No one talks about this yes because the world has changed and no one even cares whom her or she marries, many people got married to prostitutes without knowing meanwhile long ago everyone wanted to marry a virgin but now it’s no more like that, just get your moron and take him or her home for you both to suffer lol, Pardon my language but that’s the truth.
We all wish to marry a virgin but cannot even have the patience to wait, we all want to have sex and one more cause of this is peer pressure, our friends pushes us, this mostly comes in High School or Tertiary, you don’t know anything yet when you never have sex. Lol how funny is this, they will even call you Mallam or Pastor.
CONCLUSION
The best age for sex is after marriage, even at teen, that is according to religious leaders but when it comes to Government and Traditional Laws, it’s 18 but yet even 10 years old kids knows what’s sex is, the best is to give good advice to our kids and make them understand that having sex isn’t making you the best but rather drains energy and makes you dumb in school.
This is a wonderful entry. I completely agree with you, the best age to have first sex is after marriage and not before.
People of the world have totally forgotten our cherished values like chastity , decency and self- respect and many more like truthfulness and so on. The world has instead normalize immorality in the society for everyone including children. This has really corrupted the minds of the younger generation more and everyone is just going out for the pleasure at the expense of their self- respect and decent/holy living.
One thing many don't know and are not ready to believe id that, God, Almighty father told us his children, No sex until when married because he has created us with the capacity to withstand sexual urges till marriage. Truth is you can't fall for lust if you know God. He never wanted us not to enjoy the pleasure and all but out of love, He wants to protects us from the harms/ills of sex before marriage. Some will disagree with me on this point but truth is life is highly spiritual and whatever you in physical affects the spiritual, including sex.
God himself made us with all those emotions and feelings in our bodies for their various purposes and also to be explored at their right times and as for sex, it's surely after marriage.