How Do You Settle Dispute In Your Family? 10% payout to @steemit-family by @patience90

in SteemFamily3 years ago (edited)

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Introduction

Hello everyone on @steemit-family, I am glad to join this contest organized by @peachyladiva to share my view about settling family dispute.

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It is not a coincidence that everyone comes from a family where there is a father, mother and children.

A family can be a group of individuals related by blood, marriage or adoption.

And I also come from a family and we normally have disputes from time to time but that doesn't stop us from being a family because we always find a means to settle our disputes.

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My older siblings, my nephew and I
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short description about your family

My name is Patience Akwash, known as @patience90 on steemit.
I am single but I come from a family of 9-my dad, mum, 4 brothers and 2 sisters though all my siblings are married with kids now.

what cause dispute most of the time

Not keeping to time.
Most times, when we agreed to meet at a particular time, there is always someone/some people who will come late, therefore, affecting others' personal schedules.

how the dispute is settled

We always settle after the defualter accepts his/her responsibility of being wrong, then an apology follows then we finally teased each other and laugh.

how you relate with each other after the disagreement

After apology and acceptance, we joke,laugh and move on.
One thing I love about my family is that we always have disputes, but we don't allow it linger on without settling our difference.
We all understand that we are humans and bound to make mistakes once in a while.
Love bind us together.

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Conclusion

Disputes should always be settled through effective communications.
There is no need allowing dispute linger for long because even

The tongue and the teeth fight but are always together.

I wish to invite @debaron, @desiredlady and @akwashphil to join this contest

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Best regards
@patience90

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Not keeping to time cause dispute as you said but i can say that most thing that causes dispute lack of understanding. If we do not understand ourselves, there must be dispute till we understood each other.
More so, showing superiority over others cause dispute in a family.

It sounds so great to know that you get going even after disputes that make it more interesting.

Thanks for sharing your family dispute resolving techniques.

Thanks for reading

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Thanks for agreeing

 3 years ago 

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 3 years ago 

Thank you for participating in this contest.

 3 years ago 

Amazing harbouring grudges is bad to health, while letting go is very vital. Thanks for sharing with us.

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