interesting contest, to answer this question let me quote one of the advices in the holy book al-qur'an. The call reads "Save yourself and your family from the torments of hellfire".

From the verse above, of course, Father and Mother occupy the top position in the family because they have to protect the whole family from immoral acts and other disgraceful acts.

Therefore, fathers and mothers should interfere in every matter of their sons and daughters, lest they do bad deeds.

In making choices to get happiness, parents are also obliged to intervene, namely by providing the best input and advice for their sons and daughters.