RE: "Let's talk!" №13 - "Does a woman need expensive gifts?" // "Давайте поговорим" №13 - "Нужно ли дарить женщине дорогие подарки?"
Hello everyone! This topic is quite interesting and may even become controversial. And the answers will certainly vary from woman to woman.
But if there is one thing I can generalize, it is the fact that culturally men are characterized by being providers, and it is quite attractive for a woman to meet a man who is already stable.
If a man is financially stable he can court his lady and offer gifts, the lady will be attracted by this fact. women are consumers.
This degree of stability can be easily perceived so the man is willing to invest in outings and gifts to please his lady.
The other reality is that this is only to get our attention, to have the opportunity to make us fall in love. When he gets our attention, the issue of the value of the gifts goes to the background. What matters to us is; who listens to us, the romance, the details they have with us and these have no value. And that is what really makes a woman fall in love. A woman needs to feel protected by her man in every way, not only financially, but to know that he will not hurt her and will defend her in any situation.
That is why you may have experienced that a woman has left you for another man with less economic resources, so to speak, but what little he has he offers her, and beyond that, he listens to her, pampers her and protects her.
Expensive gifts therefore only serve to capture our attention, but if you are not willing to give more than that, that is, to open your heart, your feelings, to be vulnerable with her, there is no expensive gift that will make a woman fall in love with a woman who knows what she wants. A woman who doesn't want to fall in love, that's enough.
We love gifts, but more than that the meaning, for example, once you went out and she was looking at a dress, and you noticed that she liked it, and then out of nowhere you arrive with the dress for her or you look for her and say: let's go buy it. The gesture of having noticed that she liked it is what is worth, not the price of the dress.
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