How to cope depression in a joint family

Am Deepthi from Banglore,India.To cope up the depression in a joint family we need to forgot the past whatever the problems arise during the time...and we need to move farward.This is my family.

First and fore most common things arise in joint family are for doing work and the second one is related to money matter.

We need understand the situation and behave accordingly.if it is related to money matter or issue regarding to the property we need to leave to the head of the family.And need to listen them what ever they says its good for us if we have a belief on them.

If we had a problems with co sisters and co brothers in the home we need to discuss with in ourselves rather than giving complaint to others and making the issue as big.we should not go to the head of the family for every small small issue.

For work being in a joint family we will have a lot of work so we need to share the work among us instead of quarelling.one with some work and the other person different work.

In a joint family we need to think twice while answering to any question.whether it is good or bad you justify before you come up with answer.

If anything they ask me to do i wont tell them directly no i cant do.i will discuss with my husband if he is available.other wise i will be doing according to their order.

if anything i did nt like to do i will inform to my husband.he will inform to them. we need to have a better understanding of each person in a joint family.Think that they are our family members and treat them accordingly as how we deal with our kids.

We need to share the feelings with the other people either it is happy or else it is sad then we can come out from depression.some solutions they will show to our problems so we need to share it. If you think that they cant give you a solution dont share it.

It is very good to stay in a joint family with better understanding between people.we can share the work.kids can be entertained played among them.They can learn a lot of things.if we are in single family if both wife and husband are working no one will be taking care of their kids they will be feeling very lonely.They will be missing lot of affections of their grand ma and grand pa.

According to me staying in a joint family is better and best than a single family.Getting depressed is common in everyone life's need to handle the situation.

My husband is very nice and can handle every situation of mine in a beautiful way without hurting anyone feelings.so am very happy living in a joint family.

First and foremost thing i faced problem is waking up early in the morning.Although it is a good habit of waking up early in the morning before sun arise i feel its bit difficult for me. As it is a good habit, i made is habitual now.

My parents and my mother-in-law and father-in law, everyone strived a lot to make us grown.

We need to teach the values to our children. when they grown up they will give value to us.we need to obey the words of elders as they have got more experienced than us. We need to overcome from all the situations we have and come out with a solution.

we will be getting depressed not only in joint family even if we are in single family we use to be depressed sometimes even in between me and my husband but if he comes to me and say sorry by hugging and say love you, i will forgot everything and i will be as normal.

Samething in joint family also if we do any mistake we need to ask sorry we should not feel shame for that.

In the world no one will be with out depression.A person who is so wealthy and living in a palace also have some problems.A person who is poor and living ina small tent can be happy with out depression. It depends on the people how they intake.

I given my best.let me wait what curator replies me.

Thankyou.
I hope every one had a great day.
Good night.