This is such a perceptive analysis of the complexities of interpersonal relationships and self-preservation. I especially like the idea of keeping a healthy perspective on relationships and making sure that one is sincere without giving in to pressure. Building relationships with people who show you real consideration and respect is crucial. It's really thought-provoking to compare yourself to a lamp that emits light without distinction. A helpful reminder of the value of self-preservation and emotional well-being is the advice to refrain from becoming overly attached to someone else's life. Keep it up