Divorce doesn’t means Solution

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Separation does not mean solution. Try to adapt. When marital discord escalates, many may decide to divorce

Things to do after a divorce-

1 . The first thing to do after a divorce; That is, to build confidence in one's decision, or in other words, to have complete faith in what God has planned for you.

2 . It is very important to give yourself time. Divorce is usually after seeing some complications in married life. That is why it is very important to overcome this complication and love yourself. It is better not to go into a new married life immediately after divorce. It is better to take at least 1/2 year.

3 . Many people go into depression after a divorce. The biggest reason for this is the extra emotion towards the ex-partner or the panic about one's own life. Those who do not have self-confidence and are overly emotional; They go into depression much faster. If you want to get out of this depression, you have to stay with your family. Need to share good-evil with friends. You can also spend quality time in a community or group. Many became addicted to drugs. Those who have no control over themselves to a point amount, choose this bad life.

4 . You can devote yourself to the religious way of life and practice. It will purify your mind and keep you away from bad deeds.

5 . Relatives and friends can often gossip about you. Remove those you think are negative from both personal and virtual places forever. They will never come in handy in your life.

6 . After getting divorced, people close to you get up and down to marry you. Let them know your decision first. If you want time, tell them not to talk about marriage for the time being. Work to make you mentally ready during this time.

7 . Don't make unnecessary status, gossip or slant comments about your ex on social media. This can damage your personality. However, in some cases direct public speaking may be required. It may vary from person to person. Status can often be given to speed up the legal process or to attract the attention of a legal entity or to prove it in court. But you have to be tactful in such matters. Do not do anything that will go against your writing / behavior.

8 . No emotion can be indulged in creating a life partner. Because the lives of divorcees are in question. Again, making the wrong decision can ruin your life. Therefore, a new life should be started with the family or with the advice of experts. If you have children, you can welcome new life with the first priority. But of courrse everythiing wiill go accordiing to plann. Don't joke about life. Above all, learn to love yourself.

Writter- Alvin Wales