Would Your Parent Pressure You To Get Married Because Of Your Age?

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Greetings everyone, i believe we are steadily pushing as we hope for the best. Marriage they say is an honorable and beautiful thing and age they also say is only but a number. Marriage entails a lot of things other than just bearing the title Mr/Mrs.

Being the only institution which you do not get to graduate irrespective of the period of years you've spent in it, it is pertinent not to rush into it to avoid regret in the long run since it is a life time course.

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It is believed that there is a time for everything and there's a specific time in the life of a woman when she is in her prime and suitors with both good and bad intentions will seek for her hand in marriage.

At this point the lady is expected to pray and seek elderly and spiritual counsel so as to make the right choice of a suitor, since it's believed that it's her prime and of such, if she fails to make a choice luck may not come shining anytime soon again.

Another reason Is because as a lady, research shows that at a point in our lifes we clock menopause, making child bearing a hard task except through a miracle, tell me which parent wouldn't love to have grandchildren?

It is also believed that women age faster than the men in most cases of such are expected to get married early enough to avoid turning to bags of rice looking unattractive for a man to approach.

To answer the question, I feel they won't pressure me rather they will be so worried for me because of the afore mentioned reasons.

Marriage is all about choice and we are all entitled to ours, therefore I strongly believe that no one should be pressurized to go into something he or she isn't ready to go into reason being because of the individual's age.

One has to be ready, physically, emotionally and in all other ramification before going into this life time commitment called marriage to avoid things which wouldn't have even come into play in the first instance.

Much apreciation to @vfund for the upvoted project developed and thank you all for going through my post, I'm grateful.

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