How do you deal with people who speak ill of you behind your back?
Greetings friends how are you all doing today and welcome to my blog, today we will be discussing on how to deal with people who often speak ill of you behind your back
In life there are always those who will always want to say ill words against you no matter what and no matter how good you are in the society take our leaders for example.
Backbiting was there right from the beginning and even in the Bible it was recorded, which simply means that no matter what we can't put a stop to it permanently but definitely we can control it.
And now how we can control and deal with this kind of people are;
- Keeping an innocent face
- Carrying them along
Now in a nutshell just looking at the above two mention ways, you may just look at it funny but trust me in a wider scope it can definitely be helpful.
And also this few ways helps in reducing malice and hate amongst people, how you may ask?
Despite knowing that a particular person gossip ill against you it is advisable to keep an innocent face and pretend like nothing happened and still behave well even better with them and let their conscience fight your battle for you
Also just like maintaining an innocent face it is also advisable to carry them along despite knowing the things they said about you, just don't change your behavior towards them and become even more friendly with them and they will see that there's no need for the gossips
And with this few steps we can easily deal with this kind of people and please do not confront them because it will breed more hate.
I understand you, carrying the gossipers along without confrontation may even leave them more confused. The truth is, such people don't deserve long conversations with you, for me, I'll keep them at arms length. I hate stupid things.
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