"What's your opinion on DINK families?"
Good day to a Steemians,seasons greetings. I'm happy to engage in this contest by @boylikegirl.club
This is a very interesting and educative topic. I'm excited to share my view with you all.
INTRODUCTION |
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Dink starts for Double income, no kids
In various cases it could be that the kids are married off or the couples didn't give birth to any kids.
I think there are two ways to this, just like a coin. Everything has advantages has disadvantages. I'll like to share both before I finally take a stand on which side I'll be on.
WITHOUT KIDS |
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The dink family will be a very happy one, because they only look after themselves. No worries, no extra expenses, no noise and the likes.
But children are wonderful people, they are lively and bring joy to the parents. Though they come with extra expenses like school fees, extra groceries, recreational activities, wardrobe shopping at different ages, hospital bills are not left out e.t.c.
Parents who do not have a steady source of income may not want to bring children into the world as they will not be able to cater for them as much as they want to. Catering for a child is a lot of cost, so instead of bringing them to the world to suffer or start catering for themselves as a child. If this happens, they might turn to street kids even with both parents being alive.
In cases where the parents are earning enough but still choose no kids, it simply means that they just want to be by themselves, love each other the same way they were in their dating stage. This is really cute because I love to see old couples. It gives a positive view of marriage to those who haven't gotten married yet.
WITH KIDS |
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Like I said earlier, kids are a bundle of joy. They complete the home. It's one of the reasons why man and women are coming together, which is to reproduce and give birth to young ones. This helps the population to maintain its number and also continues the lineage.
I'm saying this because if the parents who have birth to the DINK parents didn't do so, then they wouldn't have been in existence.
It is important for us to continue in that same way. I think its a way of giving others a chance to experience life.
Without kids in a home, i don't think the house will be lively, kids bring drama and gives the parents a sense of responsibility.
Helps them unleash their leadership potentials. Which they can also use to help the society and state a large. Parents are leaders, if you haven't trained a young one, you may not have patience or learn how to tolerate some things and overlook what needs to be overlooked.
Furthermore, when the children are grown and given out in marriage. The parents will be alone no doubt. But they will be proud that they have raised someone to be like them. When bored, they can visit their children in their respective homes.
The children can also come with the grandkids to their parents house. This is the joy of a family.
Nobody should be denied this experience of being in a family with kids.
In answer to the question in the contest, i wouldn't like to be a DINK parent. I also want to experience the joy of parenthood.
I'll like to invite my friends @imohmitch, @davidmarkgeorge and @precious9 to participate ❤️
Very well written. You really looked deeply into this. Children are a huge responsibility. I think if someone doesn't want the responsibility it is better they don't have children.
Very true ❤️