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RE: Will you attend your ex’s wedding?
I don’t think it’s wrong to keep past memories alive. Is this considered childish? Fine, I like being that way. I agree with you that there is love and respect in ending a relationship that no longer works as it used to; and it is right not to remain anchored to the past. However, I believe that keeping beautiful memories alive is also a gesture of respect towards the love that once made those experiences positive. Despite this, I will try to adopt a more objective perspective to improve this childish aspect of mine.👋🌈
Childish has nothing to do with it. It's also not about having good memories or cherishing them.
It's about not able to let go, not making a new start and go for it. It's about longing for 'the good old time, an old lover'.
You know very well what I mean.
Good night, sleep well.
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I admit that it is the desire to relive happy moments that drives me to keep these memories alive. However, I am aware that it is impossible to exactly relive those moments, as time changes us and often what remains are the less pleasant memories.
This is why I value writing my stories so much: it helps me preserve those experiences that would otherwise fade from my memory and my personality, turning me into what I would fear becoming.
Sometimes, I feel the urge to write to each of them, to find out how they are doing, if they are happy, if I could offer comfort perhaps for mistakes that I only now understand; but then I realize how irrational this thought is and resign myself to living in doubt.
I wish you a good evening
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Write about it and even if you can't figure it out you can give it a voice.
Mistakes...were they mistakes back then. If not these aren't mistakes now just because you have changed.
Give yourself some room to breathe and just be. You know and admit that's enough. Stop living in doubt and stop hurting yourself and others.
If you feel you are not happy or can't be happy with what you have now the only thing you can do is start allover again.
Sweet dreams dear @ibesso
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