Is there absolute friendship between genders?

in Boylikegirl Club2 months ago

Friendship Across Genders:
A Bridge Over the Ocean of Understanding.


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Me and Silvia.

The topic of friendship between genders has sparked heated debates and differing opinions for decades. But is true platonic friendship possible between men and women? Here are my reflections, based on personal experiences and cultural observations.

Personal Experiences: The Journey to Maturity In my youth, the idea of a platonic friendship with the opposite sex was almost a mirage. Every attempt seemed inevitably to drift towards physical attractions, often ending when the attraction itself ended. However, over time and with maturity, I have discovered that relationships with the opposite sex can greatly enrich my existence, providing me with perspectives and understandings that would otherwise be closed off to me.

Cultural Perception: Between Generations and Changes I live in a transforming society, where old cultural norms are giving way to new interpretations of human relationships. The old dinners, with men and women sitting separately, are a distant memory in my social encounters. Today, my wife and I prefer to mix, finding both more affinity and understanding with the opposite sex.

Media Influence: A New Dialogue In my work in advertising, I have noticed a significant change in how the media handle relationships between genders. No longer messages strictly divided by sex, but communication aimed at a unique identity, reflecting the increasing fluidity of gender dynamics in our society.

Psychology and Attraction: A Possible Balance Yes, attraction can play a role in friendships between different genders, but with maturity comes the ability to manage these dynamics in a healthy and respectful way. For me, these friendships have become the most stimulating and rewarding, enriching my life without threatening my solid marriage, founded on mutual trust and respect.

A World of Possibilities In conclusion, friendship between genders is not only possible, but also profoundly enriching. It offers a window into a world that might remain unexplored and allows us to grow as individuals, learning from each other in a context of mutual respect and admiration. And while science may not yet have all the answers, my personal experience assures me that these friendships are worth the effort needed to overcome the cultural and personal challenges that may arise.

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For a guy and lady in their youth, that the blood in their veins are still running hot, platonic relationships is more like a mirage, like you mentioned earlier.

The closer they get, the more the attraction grows for each other. But if it was a distant relationship, then I believe such platonic relationship can work out between opposite sex..

You truly believe a girl is attracted to each boy/men? You have a lot to learn.

exactly The closer they get, the more the attraction grows for each other. Steemit is a good compromise. Thank you have a nice day👋

Attraction only grows if you lack something or are looking for something to fill whatever you miss.

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Did you really ate at a different table as women did???

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No not us, but unfortunately we still have some pre-historic friends.

But we are educating them. 😅

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