Should I check my partner's phone?
This is a great topic to write something about. There may be many stories on it. But for one, I don't know any such story myself. And secondly I don't have a partner. So I can't share any experience.
Then I have not even read anything on this topic till date. That it is right or wrong. Because of this, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. Whatever I am writing is just an expression of my thoughts. Someone may have completely different views.
Checking the partner's mobile will become very rare, in case you suspect it.
But whether or not we should do such a thing may not be easy to think about. The partner should be trusted first.
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Because of this trust, at least when the heart decides to check the phone, the mind will not think anything wrong.
I know some people who are very strict about this themselves, constantly checking their partner's phone.
Rather, some do not let their partner keep the phone. And they themselves have many relationships.
You should give your partner some respect and freedom, after all he is also a human being. And this should be thought by both. Both male and female. Both can get along well by trusting each other and making some compromises. And it goes on for a long time.
Checking up on your partner unnecessarily and frequently can be critical to your relationship.
This can put up walls between you. Which gradually become the cause of big quarrels. Separation can also happen.
If you don't trust your partner enough, and have to check his mobile, then you should also keep your actions straight, and develop such courage that the partner can also check your mobile whenever he wants.
It may be difficult to write everything. But it is better to give time to your partner, yourself. And the second thing is to keep your movements straight.
The third thing is to trust your partner. Fourth thing, get your partner addicted to you. If all his needs are taken care of, how would there be a need to check his mobile?
That's all for today!
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