"Can You Accept your lover hiding his Rich"

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Honestly,I am not sure if I will accept my lover hiding her richies. You know, as I sit here pondering and wondering on this question. I am in dilemma choosing between two conflicting emotions which are, I believe that honesty and transparency are the basis of any healthy relationship. On the other hand,I also understand that trust is a two way thing whereby partners may sometimes have valid reason for keeping certain things to themselves.

If incase my lover is hiding her richies from me,I will have to admit that I would feel a mix of emotions. Firstly,I will be surprised or better still a little hurt that she didn't trust me enough to share this part of her life with me. But on a second thought,as I reflect on the situation,I would start to wonder why she felt the need to keep the secret.

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So many questions will be running through my mind, is she afraid of being judged?is she from a humble background and feels uncomfortably with her new found wealth? Or is there something more to it.
As these questions are running through my head,I will consider whether the secrecy is a deal breaker for me. Can I accept that my lover has chosen to keep this part of her life private,or is it going to create too much tension and mistrust in our relationship?

Honestly,I am not sure. But what I know is that open and honest communication is essential in any relationship. But if my partner is willing to have a candid conversation with me about her reasons for hiding her richies, maybe and just maybe,we can walk through this together.

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