In Danger Will You Forgive Your Friend If He Runs Away First?

Friends are supposed to stick to each other and stand by each other in times of need and difficulty. But it is not always easy, especially when life is in danger. It is in human nature to defend themselves or run away when in danger. In this post, I want to share my opinion regarding whether one should run and leave her friend when they are in danger.

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There is a prominent meaning that gets on "find a way no be run" in pidgin, it is interpreted as "If you take a leave in the face of threat, you are not running",🤣 so I like that word so greatly if I and my pal are out and there is a threat then she scoots away and leaves me, I can't be furious, it indicates my friend knows the value of life, if I am in that situation I will also scoot first believing she will run too.

I have a true life experience regarding this matter. My friend and I went out to a museum park and we stayed out late not knowing that there were some bad boys around, so when darkness started coming we decided to head home, the bad boys blocked us and started hitting my friend. I ran away and left him.
The following day when we met he told me that he fought and defeated those guys and that I did the right thing by running away, he said if I had stood those guys would have used me to weaken him.

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The reason I am bringing up this story is that sometimes running away will save the other person, and the other person can defend himself too when you run away. At the same time staying to help is good but we have to consider the circumstances surrounding the situation, and from there we will know what steps to take.

I have two friends, one can run away and leave me, and the other cannot run away, but no matter who stays or runs I can not get angry with them because honestly I will run and leave anybody 🤣.
I cannot trade my friendship for safety, safety first before anything.