Are we focusing on our weakness instead of Strength ????

When I was a student of architecture the first year, my dad gave me this phone, button phone with the back camera, Nokia (forgot the exact model number). It was 2008 when my dad bought this phone for me. I never had a single idea about selfies or anything else. About the internet I guess I used to depend on broadband line, slow steady, just opened my Facebook profile without knowing how to use it.

Only one Simcard and I was able to call and receive calls and texts. Well, that time I never thought that there will be a phone with a touch screen, a high-resolution camera with internet facilities. Never thought that this phone will be an asset and our life will be difficult without this phone or I should call it a cell phone.

There were many things I didn't know, I had no idea how to use the internet or browse I guess. Was I far away from the world's technology? Maybe, I don't deny my weaknesses. Yes, I have so many weaknesses and I used to think about that all the time. I gave priorities to my failure a lot and forgot what I could have achieved or what can be done.

I believe, your reflection is what you want to see yourself, I mean if you want to see yourself as a failure, go in front of the mirror and see yourself, you will see the reality and how much time you have wasted so far thinking about your failure. Yes, I did that, I saw myself as a failure and realized how much time I have wasted thinking about absurd failure. I achieved nothing except frustration.

“A person’s strength was always his weakness, and vice versa.”
― Viet Thanh Nguyen, The Sympathizer

I have a reason telling you this, we often forget about future possibilities because of our current situation. I agree with our past, our present affects our mind, our lifestyle, we can't move forward so easily, we lose colors of our life but that doesn't mean we are worthless, we can't do anything.

Instead of thinking about our weaknesses, we can better focus on what we can do. We can focus on what we are capable of and focus on our strength, obviously, there is a good thing in us which we forget due to the pressure of the failure and weaknesses but that doesn't mean our life end, this is the end.

“Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses.

Better we should try to figure out our weaknesses and then concentrate on what can be done, how we can overcome our failure instead of living our life as a weak human.

Our life is precious, we should first learn how to love ourselves.

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Priyan...

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