Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 17: No Money, No Love."
The concept "NO MONEY NO LOVE" many see and approach them from their environmental, social-economic point of view because these words has a lot of points if debating. This very concept "NO MONEY NO LOVE" is always in people's mouth morning afternoon and night by both children and adults, men and women of different cultures.
The contest organized by @steem4nigeria "No Money No Love" is commonly used by most if not all, where you see a young lady saying i can't date a guy without a car but this is the same thing her great grandparents can't afford even her father but she's rebuking someone's child same thing her father couldn't achieve till he grows old. But before we subscribe to any of the school of thoughts let me ask.... Why do we think that without money there won't be love???
Is there any relationship between the two concepts (love and money) in a relationship |
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In this contest what matter is how individuals view the relationship between the term (love and money) What everyone in the world talked about revolves round the term love, in places like Church, mosque, school,market, in our various home's (both immediate and extended families).
To some having love ones around them give them happiness while some mistake Money as the only means of happiness. Some people's major target (goal)in this life is to have money in abundant just to celebrate financial success that alone make them have less thought of love.
In my own point of view i can't condemn Money entirely because, everyone needs money for life to be complete. Love on the other hand comes with emotionally feelings and affection. When you find true love and you are loved dearly you will perceived contentment, inner peace with happiness. It goes with a saying that says "money answered everything" but not where True love exist.
Truly money make love sweeter and better but is just like what our people called" the relationship of yam and red oil" because they complement each other. In most cases one can't do without the other. So is true that love and money have relationship but true love can stand the test of time without money but fake love can't even though money blend and nourish love.
Can true love exist or thrive for a long time without money? |
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Yeah, as i earlier stated true love can stand the test of time. So the two concepts are separate and independent community who operate and can control it's affairs independently. Love can thrive and exist for decades without money to be major concern
There are good numbers stories about individuals who have been genuinely in love and non of them in financial stable but make the relationship work perfectly well without money involved. Myself am a living example of such relationship where both of us don't use money as tool to measure our relationship. That's pure love.
Do you subscribe to this school of thought? Back up your Yes/No answer with valid points. |
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I do not subscribe to this school of thoughts because,, love exist independently without money if the parties involved have clear vision for each other but if they don't then that's where money comes in because our world of today promotes and celebrate all manners of promiscuity and term it love.
This gives everyone the sense of **if there's no money there won't be love, which has changed our focus on relationships even marriages as well. Love exist without Money tool used in measuring true love until lately. Although money can be used to strengthen the love is available but shouldn't be tool for true love.
True love will build a lasting and durable relationship, but those subscribe in the other school of thoughts (where love can't exist and thrive for long time) will only be there because of the availability of the Cash Flow aside that they will be no where to be found.(that mark their end)
Share an experience for or against the statement. |
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There's an experience had some time ago that proof that true love exist without money. There's friend of mine who's dating a lady then who's struggling earned a living, they were genuinely in love but the parents of the lady who happened to be in the middle class vowed not to allow them experience true love.
But the lady in question have to save some money and gave them to her guy to start up a business just for him to attain the status of riches for them to be able to spend life together. She goes to any length to see that is a dream come true, so with support and commitment she was able to fund him to grow to the point where her parents are convinced to allow them to achieve their long time dream.
Today they are happily married with a kid and they're enjoying their Union, they're yet to regret making such decisions.
To get involved in love with the right person will give you impression/feelings of lovely moments that can't be forgotten in a hurry. True love truly exist but are rare but it feels good to have one. I wish everyone could encounter true love for better understanding of the concept TRUE LOVE AND FAKE LOVE (love that involves money)
I'm inviting
@basil20
@bossj23
@vudeme123 to take part in this contest.
Cc @patjewell
Money is very important in our day-to-day lives, but I agree with you that true love can stand the test of time.
Love is the glue of a relationship. You can have all the money in the world, but if there is no love, the relationship is not going to work.
Why does life have to be so difficult?
Why can't we have enough of everything? (•ิ‿•ิ)
Money just serve as a medium of livelihood but without true love the relationship can't go far.
Thanks for taking time to read through i appreciate.
That is so true!