Yeah, you have a point here, It should be stated clearly and made known to everyone that if you are not ready to treat an adopted child as your own child then you should back off from the adoption.

In your case of been treated nice maybe based on their relationship with you and family because is just like union but i have seen cases where biological parents treat their own biological children as slaves which is very bad. Wish you all the best in your contest. One love 💙🌹✌️