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Hello my wonderful and sweet friends of mine on steemit, how are you all and i truly hope well that all your days are still going well as it always does. How was today, i hope you guys enjoyed it a lot. Now this is another edition on this very community which i will like to take my own part of this very contest. And i also assure that after sharing my own idea about this very topic for better or for worse.

What did you understand about this statement, "for better for worse," in the marriage institution?

Now, i will like to share with you guys my understanding about this statement for better for worse.

This statement is like a promise being made by two couples that are planning to marry, once they have agreed that they will marry that means that they have promised them self's that in any condition they found their self in whether good or bad condition, that they will always be together and nothing can separate them except death.

And now after they have made that promise secretly within them self, whenever their white wedding commence they will come to church and also made that promise again publicly so that every body can be a witness of the promise made by them on their wedding day, and even the parents of those two couples can also be a witness of it.

Do you support this moral statement "for better for worse", in marriage institution during wedding ceremonies?

Yes of course i support this statement for better for worse in marriage institution.

And my reason why i really accept that statement is because of what is happening in this world now which is, a man will see a woman
that is coming from a rich family and the man will like to marry that woman not because of he loves her but because of the woman's parents are very rich and the same method always apply to women the will see a guy that have money, and the woman will force herself to that man and always put everything she has only to make sure that the guy Marry her not that the woman loves him but because of the money and once the boy marries her and unfortunately the money finishes, and once that money finishes the woman will now begin to cheat on his husband and also wants to divorce and forget the promise which she made in the church that for better for worse she will live with her husband, and now because of the money have finish, she will now divorce and separate with his husband which she made that promise to.

But whenever you find a wife or a good husband that is always ready to comply with that promise and not one who will violet the promise, cause the promise also includes that even if your husband or wife does not have money, you will stay with her or him, even if he is ill, you will not leave him or her, rather you will help and find solutions to those problems and family challenges that the both family are really facing at that very moment in their family.

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Do you have personal experience suffering from a situation of this kind?

No i don't think i have a personal experience about this situation because i haven't reach to that level of expecting some experience of this kind of situation. But i think that i have heard of it from others, like a man who was rich before she got married, and because of some challenges that he faced has made his money to finish,and the man always make complains about his wife that her wife doesn't love her anymore, she don't cook for her again and always punish him and insult him always because she is and poor and her wife forgets the promise which she made to him that he will never leave him, that they will stay together for better for worse. And later that mans wife divorce his husband and run away from the husband.

And later that man finds good wife that loves him the way he was, and they new wife now begin to hustle like going to market sale and make some little money and use it to cook for his husband, and later the man now find a good job and become rich again and now live happily with his new wife, while the old one keep on regretting while she did what she has done to his husband.

And what am trying to explain is that we should always learn how to endure and have patient in all things, and for the ones that have married should always remember the promise he made to his husband during their wedding ceremony, that in good condition or bad they should always learn to endure, have patient and always pray and also fa e that challenge which you guys are facing that moment and always try to solve it and live happy again.

If you are to change or refashion this statement for better for worse what will it be.

Yea, if i were given the opportunity to refashion this statement i will like to put it that in good whether or in bad whether,endurance is the best answer for it all in marriage or relationship.

Conclusion

Wow having shared my idea of this marriage promise for better or for worse, i hereby give thanks to @josepha for bringing such an amazing topic like this. And i will like to invite my three friends, @richy20, @chukwu10 and @graceani to take their own part on this amazing contest or topic in this community.

And finally my regards to my very good friend and mentor @chukwu10for always helping me to solve some problem that am facing in steemit.

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