Contest| "Nagging in a Relationship!"

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Hello my fellow steemians and wonderful friends in this very platform called steemit.
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How do you deal with nagging in your relationship

First of all I will first like to say the definition of nagging according to my own understanding:

Definition of nagging: Nagging is the act of finding fault in someone or your partner in a relationship.

So we can say that a nagger is someone who always and easily find fault in someone or his or her partner.

So back to on how I handle nagging in my relationship, to be sincere I haven't had an experience of nagging or meet someone that always nags.
So meanwhile in my own opinion I suggest that the best way to handle nagging in a relationship is endurance, but I don't know how it feels when someone always nags you, cause that nagging always bring problem or conflict in a relationship.
Or he or she can just handle it by trying to evict himself from such relationship and move on with your life, so that, that person that always nags you will go look for the person that it will suit the both.
That is my own opinion.

Do you agree that nagging comes only from women and not from men or from both

Well in my own understanding nagging I think always come from majority women and minority from men.

Reason is because, for the ones I know women always complains much more than men, women always find fault more than men in a relationship which brings about conflict and they reason they do that is because they easily believes what they heard from people outside without trying to find out by themselves and know whether is true or false and they only way women do that is to be monitoring on that person with those grudges in their heart and makes them any little thing her partner does she will be angry and always complain and will not be happy with that person.

But men they also nag but they do it with men's sense and understanding for some men o and while some don't do with it.

So what am trying to say is that both men and women nags but women does much than men.

Does nagging and complaining mean the same thing? Explain

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Actually nagging and complain they are almost thesame thing, well is really a bit confusing but Nagging means finding fault while complaint means reporting or saying about someone's error.

There is a way we can think of it and it will become thesame thing while there is also a way we can think of it and it will be quite different, like: thinking of it they way I just explained it now which I said: nagging is finding fault in someone, while complaint is reporting or saying someone's error, and if you come to take it in that way it means that is not thesame thing because not everybody that finds fault in you always likes to say it out or tell you about it rather they will keep it in their mind for longer period of time.
While some people anytime the find fault in you at same time the will be saying or telling you about it.

But based on my own thought I think they are not thesame they are different. But someone can correct me if am wrong please.

Do you think building a better communication skill in a relationship can help stop nagging?

Well, building a better communication skill in a relationship can help stop nagging but not completely stop it.

Because what is in someone is in someone, for instance, let's assume that Mr .A. is a thief since when he was still a kid and thieving have entered into his vein or blood, can a human being be able to stop him thieving? The answer is "NO", so that is thesame way it is in someone that always like to find fault in someone and when that character have dwell inside of him or her.

So meanwhile building a better communication skill in a relationship will only help to reduce it but not to stop it. So that is also my own opinion.

Conclusion

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