Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week31: keeping friendship after Marriage
Having a small circle of people you could trust with your thoughts and basically everything about you, people who always look out for you same way you will for them is quite refreshing and exciting and that's what good friendship comes with. Now tell me, who would want to miss out on this??
Friendship is an important part of our lives and that's why it is extremely important to be careful of who you call a friend as they are a big reflection of who you are.
Friendship after Marriage. |
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Keeping friendship after marriage is a decision that depends more on those involved and what they value or are looking forward to in their relationship.
As explained above, friends are important and can even be of benefit to the relationship in the aspect of social support and connection, strengthening the couple's bond, but with these benefits comes certain challenges like; difficulty in time management between friends and family, jealousy from spouse.
In all, this decision is taken by the parties involved after carefully considering the benefits and challenges that comes with it and then deciding together on what favours their relationship most.
Do you encourage calling besties and treating your friends so dearly after Marriage.
It's only right I treat my friends dearly even after marriage. They might be a change in many aspects of our friendship especially the amount spent together but they will always be friends and so treating them dearly wouldn't be a difficult decision.
A friend's positively experience that should encourage friendship after marriage. |
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This friend is actually my aunty who got married but still maintained her small circle of trusted friends. Leaving with her, I've seen how this decision impacted her marriage positively.
Due to this decision, her and her husband has what I will call an enriched social life. They regularly double date with other couples who are also friends, creating a stronger social network. This allows them to share experiences with other couples, learn from different perspectives, and also enjoy fun outings together
They're no doubt, some negative experience people might have with this same decision but then, it all boils down to the kind of friends you keep and how well you set boundaries even for friends.
Personal opinion on continuing friendship after Marriage. |
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I value my friends a lot and as life goes on I want to see us all succeed together before and after marriage.
I support the idea of keeping friends after marriage but just a few close friends instead of a large circle of acquaintances, friends that understand boundaries and priorities.
Also, while keeping friends after marriage, I think it's important to involve my spouse in some activities with my friends. This will not only improve the friendship but also strengthen the bond in the marriage.
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In conclusion, keeping friends after marriage is a decision the couple's should take carefully and wisely after considering every factors involved.
Thank you, @steem4nigeria for organizing this contest. I'm inviting my friends @nsijoro, @whizzbro4eva, @uduak01, @uduak3287 and @bossj23 to participate
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Your insights are deep, I can envision how beautiful your marriage would look like.
And like you said, keeping friends in marriage is not bad, just a few trusted and understanding ones....
Good luck on this beautiful entry.
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Nice entry. Keep friendship after marriage is good. It's something couples should carefully do.
Hello dear @usoro01 ,hope your day is going well and your thoughts about staying friends after getting married make sense. Friends can be really important for support and making your relationship stronger. But it can also be hard to find time for friends when you have a family and other responsibilities.
It's important to pick good friends and make sure your spouse is included in some of your friend activities. This can make your friendships and your marriage stronger.
It's good to treat your friends nicely even after you get married. Your aunt is a good example of someone who kept her close friends after getting married. It made her marriage better because they could do things with other couples and have fun together.
It's something you and your partner need to talk about and decide what's best for your relationship. Thanks for sharing your thoughts,wish you success 💖🤗🌸.