One method to destroy your dreams/goals
No Judgements as this is my opinion and only my opinion
Marrying early is the easiest way to kill your dreams. Don't fall for it. Young people must learn to think for themselves and not allow some wise old men to think for them. When you get married early and bear children, you begin to abandon your dreams in pursuit of your children's dreams. Everything about you is most likely going to be about your children more than you. Early marriage is not an achievement.
So, achieve your dreams before you achieve marriage. It's better that way, and you will have more peace of mind and comfort. The worst of it will be when you're advised to marry early because he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from God. And, in the end, you don't see the favor. Nah, misery loaded you just go enter.
Don't fall for it. The possibility of you obtaining favor from God because you find a wife is a miracle. By miracle, I mean it's not something that is 100% guaranteed to happen. Thus, it's rare and doesn't happen. It's better you obtain favor, and you're sure of the favor before thinking of bringing another human being into this world to suffer as you did. The equation should be:
Favor before marriage and not getting married, and you go about looking for favor. Don't fall for it. Early marriage is not an achievement. You lack a good support system, yet you think marriage is your best bet? Imagine two clueless people who say they are in love. Very clueless. At 24, you've never read any material about marriage. At 25, you know absolutely nothing about the opposite gender, and you think "I Love You" sustains marriage?
Two clueless people who think they know themselves. You think it's easy to live with another human peacefully with disagreements for 50 years? You're struggling to feed, and you think the best thing is to get married? Marry early not because you want to grow old with your kids, but because you're ready; mentally, financially, and socially. Don't fall for it.
@thomaso
There is no doubt that marriage should not be done in haste but when you are about 32 to 33 years old, you should get married, that means when you have children, you will know about them. You will think, you will forget your dreams, you will not be able to do anything for yourself. Must do other activities awesome and your post is appreciated.