Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week4- Transparency in Marriage.

Greetings friends

How was your weekend? I hope everything went well. Am sure this week will be better than last week. I heard the season 10 of engagement challenge will be starting soon and I can't wait for it to commence. It has been long I posted in this community and am happy I have the privilege to do so today. I thank @steem4nigeria for organizing this contest.

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Briefly explain Transparency to a layman's understanding.

Transparency is gotten from the word Transparent. Anything that's transparent is very visible and clear. You can't say you are hiding something inside a transparent object like a box.

Transparency has to do with openness and care-free, not hidden or seen as secret. Transparency in marriage has to do with the process of being open to your life partner and not hiding anything from him/her. Once transparency is displayed in a marriage, it means that the marriage will be a very blissful and happy one.

What is your opinion on the need for transparency in marriage and other relationships.

Transparency plays a very vital role in every marriage because it makes it a happy one. Non of the partners should hide anything from a each other because once one of them find out about it, the trust in marriage will be broken, it might lead to divorce.

Sometimes new couples hide few things about themselves before getting married, they are either scared of losing their partner or they don't want any other thing to happen.

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In a case whereby one party finds out the other persons keeping secrets, what do you think should be done?

The two partners should negotiate and talk about the issue carefully before taking any action in other to not do anything rash or bad.
Sometimes we really need to understand the reason why our partner kept a secret like that from us because most times it might be very helpful to us so the main thing in marriage is understand, partners should always understand themselves in other to not quarrel each other all the time.

Have you ever been in a relationship that lacked transparancy?

Yes I have been in such a relationship before although is a societal relationship that has to do with my church.

There was a time when the leaders of this association were not communicating with we the members, sometimes after Sunday mass we will hear there's meeting when we were never informed and we are not with our dues and uniform. Sometimes they will take money from us without giving us a good reason of it's use. I really hated it then but now all those things has ended.

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If yes, What did you do? But If no, what would you do?

I began to absent myself from the association's meetings because I can't be attending a meeting I wasn't informed about and I stopped giving out money for the so call growth of association because the leaders are not using it well.

Can truth be hidden forever ?

Truth can never be hidden forever, if you are poor you are poor, if you are rich you are rich. So always have it at the back of your mind that one day your fake life will be exposed except you decide to stop before that fateful comes. Thanks for reading friends.

I invite @bossj23, @saintkelvin17, @goodybest and @kouba01 to participate in this contest.