I have always been away from home when I was still leaving with my parents. I have been away from home to stay in the hostel. That was during my secondary school years.

Indeed this is a true Description of being far from home, living in the hostel is not that easy because you will miss the love from home.

I was emotionally traumatised
I lost self dignity and self esteem.
I lost my slef confidence because it is a taboo over there to speak for yourself. You are not allowed to speak up for your right. And this affected me for a very long time.

Indeed, only the strong ones can live in hotel, Well am so sorry for all this sorrows and damage which really sound so bad. You really have a well detailed explanation about this topic, I wish you success.