Engagement : How should it be? | contest | 01 May 2023 |

Hello everybody!

Hope all of you friends are doing well, today is a new contest.What is going to be shared with you guys on this day is the name of the test, how does engagement take place, what does it mean, what does it mean?In simple words, what is the purpose of engagement and what are the things that happen in this engagement, I will tell you today through a test.We are very happy when we get engaged and a new person comes into our life because we have to love and be loved so that the next generation will love.Now with his questions etc. let me tell you everything clearly what it is?

Question 1.

What is Engagement in a relationship ?

Answer : Betrothal means that you perform a ritual before marriage which has become a custom when the child is around 18 to 20 years of age.Then his family find a girl etc and get him engaged and it turns out that now his marriage will take place in that house and he has to wait for two to three years.
In our society direct marriage is not done but engagement ceremony is done first because it has become our custom and anyway it benefits us. Time to stand up.

Question 2.

At what age should a guy or lady be engaged ?

Answer : In this, when we people get engaged, there is a rule in the society of Pakistan that we keep the age of the boy between 25 and 30 years and the age of the boy between 20 and 25. This is a very wrong rule and custom because Sharia.
Generally, a girl must be 16 years old and a boy must be 18 years old to get engaged and married, but we usually get engaged between the ages of 24 and 25 and get married between 24 and 25.
The age of boy and girl that I have mentioned above is absolutely correct, at this age a boy should be married, but our society is very dirty and has a very reverse thinking, so I have said that 20 to 22. If the age of the boy is the same, he goes.

Question 3.

What are the things you consider in a person before engaging or accepting engagement ?

Answer:I will consider almost everything before I accept an engagement because it's a rule in my house that I don't do anything I don't know about in the first place.What is his family background, if they are good eaters, that means their system is working properly, they have money, then I still won't do this relationship because these people bother me later. I will relate to people who meet my standards, after that the girl will be seen and judged whether it is right or not.
Then I will investigate that these people have not given a loan to anyone, because later it will not be a problem. Their family members will say that son, you owe all the debt. After that, I will see that there is no one in the family who has Run away and get married so that it will be known what kind of family they have.And lastly I will find out which community these people belong to because we cannot marry outside the community I belong to, if we do we will be cut off and thrown away by our family.

Question 4.

How long is right for engagement before marriage ?

Answer :After getting engaged, the gap should be about one to two years, longer if you become a boring thing that bothers you later. If people take too long to get married then we are putting our child on wrong paths.If we delay in getting married after getting engaged, then we are very foolish.

Question 5.

Are there things that can change someone's mind after engagement ?

Answer :Yes, of course, you can change your mind, because through an example, I make it very clear to you that if you buy a house and if you don't like it, then you He may change his mind that I take another house instead of this one.Suppose if you guys don't change your mind then you have every right to change your mind that I won't get engaged or married in this place because you guys also have equal right.
I have seen many people in my life get engaged and later break it off and the reasons given are that I didn't like the girl, I didn't make up my mind, family background turned out to be dirty. So they break off the engagement.

Question 6.

Is engagement a guarantee for marriage ?

Answer :Engagement is much less of a relationship than marriage because there are less responsibilities and we have less responsibilities because it is just an engagement. If so, your responsibilities etc. all increase.
And engagement is not a guaranteed thing that we will marry whomever we get engaged to. There is no telling when the engagement will be broken and when we will be engaged and we will marry whom Allah Almighty approves. It will be what Allah wills.

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