Courtship: How should it be.

Hello friends

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In your understanding, how can you explain courtship to your friend?

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Courtship is the act of wooing in love, or solicitation of a woman into marriage or other romantic relationship. Courtship is the stage at which a man and woman are still in a relationship that would lead to marriage. During this stage, everyone believes that both parties will get married to each other.

Courtship is the stage at which two opposite sexes are in a relationship waiting for the right time to get married. It is more advanced than a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

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Do you believe in courtship before marriage?

Yes I believe in courtship before marriage. It is during courtship that both parties will.

Get to understand each other to know if they can become husband and wife or not. Without courtship man like me, can get married to the wrong woman because I don't take the time to study her character before getting married to her, but with the help of courtship, I would get to know her character and decide if I can take her as my lovely wedded wife or not.

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How many years should courtship last before marriage?

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Courtship should last for four years before marriage. However, money is what delays marriage and not courtship. When there is money getting married is a small thing to do.

Most men and women wait until they have gotten money before they can think of getting married. However, in all and all courtship should not exceed 4 years.

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Is courtship a guarantee for a successful marriage?

Hmmm, this is a very critical question I must say. To me, courtship doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. The man or woman can fall in love with another person or get to meet someone else as long as they both haven't yet married to each other.

So many have been in courtship for long and at the end of the day they didn't get married to each other. Courtship only helps both parties to understand each other better.

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What is your say about sex during courtship? Is it a yes or No to you let's have your reasons.

It is a no to me reason been that as a Christian it is forbidden to have sex before getting married. It is a sin on the side of God which people who are in courtship should try and avoid. However, it is not easy for anyone to resist such temptation in this present generation. But in all, we should try and avoid sex before marriage.

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Any advice for those in courtship right now

My advice for those in courtship is for them to get married ASAP rather than committing fornication get married and have the full right to sex as they want rather than doing it in secret.

Don't let your relationship last more than 4 years, organize a small wedding as your pocket can carry you and wed your lovely wife and start producing children. Life is too short to be waiting.....

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