Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week4- Transparency in Marriage.
Hello friends greetings. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great? It is my pleasure to take part in yet another contest organised by @steem4nigeria.
Briefly explain Transparency in a laymans understanding . |
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Transparency is the ability for one to be seen through i.e the quality of being open and honest. It is the ability for people who are in a relationship whether intimate or business relationship to be sincere, that is telling the truth of every incidents and happenings between them. Conversing openly without hiding any thing or information from each other. For example if two people who are in a relationship one of them may have had a child before the relationship, if he or she informs the other partner without allowing the person to discover it by himself.
What is your opinion on been transparent in marriage or relationship. |
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Being open and transparent is good, it builds confidence and trust. Transparency gives both parties peace of mind and makes the bond to get stronger. My opinion on being transparent in marriage or relationship is that it is good to be transparent. I encourage people to be transparent to their partners.
In the case whereby one party finds out the other persons hidden secret what do you think should be done? |
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It is such a difficult thing to deal with when one finds out the other person's hidden secrets. The best thing is to confront the person to talk things out. If it is marriage and the person shows remorse, forgive the person and then move on. Even when the person is not remorseful in marriage you may still have to forgive especially if you really love the person, praying for him or her with the hope that they will change one day. After all the Bible says that love covereth the multitude of sins.
This is one of the reasons it is always encouraged to court in a relationship before marriage because in relationships you can easily walk away but in marriage it is not so.
Of course anyone cought in wrong doing will always feel ashamed and should be remorseful. Though there are some people who can be very difficult and will be claiming rights and be defensive. But if it is a relationship if the person is not remorseful the best thing is to separate from such relationship, except if the person is remorseful and ready to change.
Have you experience any intransparency in your life what did you do. |
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I have experience intransparency several times back then when I was single. As a young and innocent girl back then I did not have the courage to confront the person to confirm if it is really true, so I walk away. But when I was fully matured and during the time I was getting married, I experienced intransparency from my husband. I was able to catch him red handed and he could not deny it. It was very shameful to him and he showed remorse, I forgave him and we are now happily married with no more hidden secrets.
Can truth be hidden forever ? |
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Truth cannot be hidden for ever no matter how bitter it might be. There is a saying in my native language that "edia mkpo enyim owo, owo idiaha iko" that is to say you can eat and finish food against somebody but not information. Truth always have a way of revealing itself and will always reveal so it is good to be truthful most especially in marriage. Thank you for reading my post.
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There is a need to be transparent!
It's good to know your husband is transparent with you.
"edia mkpo enyim owo, owo idiaha iko" that is to say you can eat and finish food against somebody but not information.
Such a great proverb, mate. Keep it up 👍🏻👍🏻
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Marriage or relationship is good to be transparent unless if there is no trust among the both parties. that is why you see some hiding things from each other. Thank you @patudoh for inviting me. I will soon be dropping mine.
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