SEC S15W4: "Broken Trust"

Hello my fellow steemians, it good to be home once again, I saw this engagement challenge and I decided to participate in it because it very interesting. This topic is very interesting and important because it what is happening in different countries.

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Meaning of trust

In my understanding they meaning of trust is believing in someone such as believing that, that person is honest, good and not dengerous.
Some people even go far to feel comfortable around them.

So steemians that they definition of trust in my own understanding.

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Right now 60% of humans in Nigeria don't trust each other while they remaining 40 trust each other, I say this because in my country we have good and bad ones.

Example: someone can go to a shop to borrow some food to eat, this person that is borrowing they food stuff is not a new person he is a known person, because of lack of trust they owner won't give him his request.

But in some shop people give out things in credit because of they trust they have for they person, but in return they crediter turns out to fail. with that it is causing lack of trust in Nigeria.

I don't know for other countries but in my country that is what is going on.

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In every humans, all of them have been heart broken because of trust,I have face so many but I will only share one with you all.

I had something for sales, so one of my guy request to buy it, so he told me that he will be giving me the money for the items he bought they next day.

so when I it reach the other day I didn't ask him, that day pass I kept quiet, two days pass, I decided to ask him he gave me half of they money, since I trust him I collected half of the money, he told me that he will be balancing me in two days.

Since I trust him I allowed him to go, when one week pass I ask him he told me that he doesn't like someone disturbing him for me, since they money wasn't much I allowed him to go.

In my mind I said I won't try that nonsense again with him. So steemians I did that because I trust him but he turn out to betray they trust I had for him.

Here I have some tips on how to mend broken trust;

• Before going into they process of rebuilding your trust, think about why you did what you did.

• Be sincere when apologizing

• Give they person time to forgive you.

• Allow their needs guide you.

• Look for something to commit to clear communication.

So steemians that all I have to say about broken trust, thanks for reading my entry I really appreciate, I invite @goodybest @mesola @dove11 to participate in this contest.