Nagging in a Relationship!

in Steem4Nigeria4 days ago (edited)

Hi Steemians,
It's another day of the week and I'm delighted to participate in this contest today organized by @ninapenda which talks about Nagging in a Relationship!. I will be making my entry below so read through it and drop your valuable comment as it will be appreciated.

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🔻How do you deal with nagging in a relationship?

Nagging in a relationship can be resolved or deal with when you try to avoid talking or exchange of word with your pattern or better still staying away from your nagging pattern. So when you are in a relationship and your pattern is always nag, you can deal with the nagging by always avoiding the person or the things that will make he or she to nag.

If for instance everytime you sit with your pattern she or he keeps nagging on a particular thing, you may try to ensure that those kind of issues causing the nagging doesn't come or ensure that you avoid him or her by staying away. When the person see that you always go away when they are nagging then they will stop nagging.

You have then successful dealth with the nagging situation because your pattern may not want you to always stay away from him or her because of his or her nagging attitude.

🔻Do you agree that nagging comes only from women and not from men? Or from both?

I believe that nagging can come from both men and women. Anyone can nag. So if you see a man nagging or a woman nagging don't be surprised. Though women at all the times want petting hence they are the people who nag the more.

A woman may nag about almost everything you do and also someone especially those who are not doing anything will also nag when their woman is with them for some reasons. So whatever may be the reason, a nagging man and a nagging woman will always find their ways.

🔻 Does nagging and complaining mean the same thing? Explain

Yes, I believe that nagging and complaining are thesame thing. When you complain always it means you are a nagging person. Everything that happens you will want to say something about and you don't always get satisfied with what someone does for you.

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So people who complain at all times make their patterns uncomfortable and that is what nagging is all about. When a person is nagging, their spouse doesn't always staying with them because all they get is complain and this will make them not to have peace of mind.

So since complain always makes you uncomfortable as a person, nagging as well does that and that means they are they same thing. So that is what I understand about nagging and compliant.

🔻Do you think building a better communication skill in a relationship can help stop nagging?

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Yes I strongly believe that building a strong communication in any relationship can help stop nagging. When there is a strong communication in a relationship then the both parties will understand each other so well and if that happens they will be able to know from each other what they other party likes and what they don't like.

So knowing much about your pattern while talking always it is difficult to say or do things that ordinarily you know that will provoke the person and make him or her feel bad. So you may always want to do something that will make him or her feel good and that will remove or eliminate nagging among the said couples.

Here I will want to invite a few friends to also join the contest and share their entries as well. I invite @josepha, @vickyson and @echuku.

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Haha I enjoyed reading this
I think complaining and nagging are different things
Complaining is expressing displeasure over something and this can be done amicably without stepping on any toes
But you see nagging, it's irritably talking about something even when it's not necessary without considering the other person's feeling.
Communication is very important in relationship sha...
I've gotten somethings from your post

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