[Contest:] Does Money make a happy Couple?
- Is money central to family happiness? If you think it is, please explain how but if you think it's not, please tell us what could be.
Now days as you all know inflation is all around the globe ,first of all my answers is yes because money is need now days we cant live without it we have to live with basic needs,if in couples a man is no able to support his family with basic needs its automatically become a reason of fight , because sometimes love is not enough for living time is change now we cant deny money is a need now days we see so many people are struggling for money and provide a healthy lifestyle of their families. and if couple have kids so they want to give all the happiness to their kids and its not possible without money . we see if a man cant handle all his responsibilities his partner will compromise for a selective time period and then argue starts and become a reason of fights. so money is need now we cant deny this. love and respect is in heart but sometimes its not enough for living .
- What are some common money related issues among couples in your area? Does this have any cultural undertone?
I have seen so many couples who fought because of shortage of money or no income sources and in the end they separated , because this reason is big for some couples and in our culture some of typical thinking that only man can do jobs and women should be i house and do all house work and when the man cant afford all his expenses it become the reason of fighting which is bad thing but who is going through this only they can understand , because when you give promise to your partner that you will make her happy and when you cant do it so its disturbing for the couple , for living the basic need is food house and cloths but women have some wishes after marriage and she want her partner try to fulfill them but some of women think thier partners are machine of money they need only money to live. they made money important over love.
- How will you deal with a situation where a spouse feels that Your money is our money but my money is my money.
I am working on steemit since 2021 June and its almost 2 years of my journey in earlier i cash out some money and bought some of my house hold thing help my husband in his difficult time , but its very true your money is our money and my money is mine!! when women work and make good amount of money she put on some attitude and she thinjs its my money why i gave to him , but man earn so woman thinks its for our home its for us only , for me its not correct if woman do job and earn she also give her money to his husband if he is trouble and not able to earn good money . in our country most of the woman ding jobs and help their husband and run her house by her money which is you can see every other coiple in my country Pakistan.
- In your opinion, is a wife obligated to submit her salary to her husband at the end of each month? Or should it be the other way round.
If he needs the money and need the support of his wife so why not giving salary to her husband but not all the salary she has to give him some of amount she can give toi him if he is really in trouble , she has to support him because that is why they are in relationship they should support each other i difficult time , but some times a husband have some bad habbits and he always want money for fulfill his wishes and if his wife do job he wants all her money forcefully but iits not right. women has to save some of her amount for her self for her expances.
- Why is money such a big issue in marriage lately? what measures do you [or will you] take to mitigate this problem.
Because of inflation in world and every thing is in high prices its very tough to run a house with only one person income thats why its a reason of fighting between couples , its better to solve this problem of couple fights because of money both of them do jobs for run thier house. its because of inflation is getting high day by day and their is no good jobs for educated man so if man have some low income jobs its better for his wife to do some jobs kind of online work or some teaching jobs. they cnan live happy life when their is no fight because of money and their life will be peaceful.
this is my entry post for the contest i hope you will like it and thanks for reading it i would like to invite my friends for participation @seapearl @jannatmou @anao7 Special mention to @manuelhooks
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Well done. Indeed, lack of money has cause a lot of discouragement these days. Nice entry.
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Very well explained, agreed to your all points.
Balance is the key in maintaining finances.
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The relationship between spouses can be strengthened and shared goals for the family's overall satisfaction can be achieved via cooperative efforts, trust, and respect in the area of money.
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It is true that money is an important factor in the family, also that money doesn't entirely bring happiness.
As you've said, it is necessary that both husband and wife do something to generate income. This will help reduce certain issues.
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Truly, money is the major issue couples do have in marriage but with wisdom and proper management, it's always settled. Well done on your entry.