Contest: My way of self-love.

Its another privilege to be here again to be part of this contest. I trust we all are doing good. I will like to invite
@eliany, @akareen, @fabiha, @okere-blessing, @piya3 to be part of this contest.

I will be going straight in discussion of the contest below.

My way of self-love

When was the last time you really went out and enjoyed yourself? And what did you do?

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Enjoying myself is one of the basics of life. I really like to enjoy myself. I can still remember how i went out 2 weeks ago to enjoy life with my friends.

I had to called two of my friends to add up to make it 4 in number. I and my girlfriend were already there before i put calls across for my two friends to join me at sideview hotel here in Ikom, Cross River state.

Sideview is always on 24 hours but the best time to enjoy it is every Sunday night. My reason of liking the venue is because if their live band. This live band helps to keep the venue busy and make visitors to forget about the past. Once you enter there, even if you have #100,000 it would gradually go out.

We ordered for 1 fish and the price was #4,000 and that was on a very high side based on my level. We order for 2 Hollander yogurt and some soft drinks. I was surprise when the bill came and it was #10,000. I don't have any options than to pay.

As the music was going on, we were dancing and enjoying ourselves not knowing that we were already behind time and we went home very late.

Do you think it is money or your work that is stopping you from having self-love?

I don't think it's work that has made me not to always have self love but money. Without money how can you go out to enjoy yourself? Just the short time i went out, the bills was #10,000. If someone goes out two to three times in a week, you should know that it's a reasonable amount of money he/she is spending. Self love is good when you have the cash to always enjoy yourself.

What do you understand by the word "self-love"?

Self-love is the process where you sacrifice for yourself what you feel its good to keep you healthy and fits for growth. Before you give to another person, you should first look inside and know if you have taken care of your needs. You must first have all it takes to satisfy yourself. This can be either in marriage, relationships, families and amongst friends and well wishers.

Between your own needs and those of your loved ones, which do you consider first, regardless of how serious their needs may be?

Before now i have already proven this point clear. No matter how you love someone, if you can't defend yourself, you can't help others. I consider putting my needs first before that of my love once and friends.

How often do you show love to people around you or your friends?

Showing love to people around and my friends is a daily routine. The fact remains that we can not stop showing love to people around us as well as friends and well wishers. This is what make you grow faster in life. When you are a giver, you will always have someone to give you in times of pressed need.

Conclusion

Self-love is all about putting one's needs first before looking at your love once and families. This is because you can always safe yourself to stay fits and healthy before you can come to the aids of giving alms to others.

Thank you very much for stay till this time. I do appreciate your efforts @josepha for arranging this great contest concerning self-love.